Legalism plays the blame game and uses guilt to manipulate and motivate people. Psychologists recognize that we often deride and malign others in an attempt to bolster our own position or image. We also sometimes project on others the things of which we are guilty ourselves. This can be done malignantly to deceive or it can be simply a form of denial. We often fail to see in ourselves what we clearly see in others. We imagine that we are better than the person we judge, and feel comfortable accusing them, without realizing that, in so doing, we condemn ourselves.
Paul highlighted this sinful tendency in his letter to the church in Rome.
You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you are condemning yourself, for you who judge others do these very same things. Romans 2:1 (NLT)
Our propensity to judge others for the things for which we are also guilty reveals that we have not seen or accepted the truth about our own sinfulness.
A root of legalism is that we think we are better than we are.
Jesus told a parable (Matthew 18:21-35) about a servant who owed his master an enormous debt for which he no means to repay it. Rather than consign his bankrupt servant to debtor’s prison, the master amazingly completely forgave the debt. Perhaps such magnanimity was an affront to the servant’s pride, who imagined still that he was capable of repaying the debt. The ungrateful and deceived servant immediately set about trying to do just that by collecting much smaller debts that others owed him. When a fellow servant was unable to come up with the money owed, the forgiven servant threw him into debtor’s prison. When the master heard about this, he became furious and had the previously forgiven man also placed in the same prison.
The first servant’s main problem was his pride which kept him from seeing that he was a pauper, who fully depended on his master’s mercy. He thought he was better than he was and certainly better than the one who owed him money. Demanding from others what we cannot produce ourselves is a sure sign of pride and legalism.
When this is our condition, we do not appreciate the mercy shown to us and refuse to give any to others.
God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs. Matthew 5:3 (NLT)
We undercut the mercy shown to us when we refuse to give any to others.
By default, our sinful pride influences us all to gravitate toward legalism.
The false narrative of legalism is that we can improve ourselves and become acceptable to God, if we try hard enough.
Some of us have been engaged in a lifelong remediation project in the hope that one day, hopefully soon, we will finally arrive at our destination – the level of perfection we think is attainable. The Bible teaches that this is the surest way to frustration, anger, and depression. Pursuing perfection can totally demoralize us or turn us into mean spirited self-righteous judges.
The more we try to measure up to the demands of God’s righteousness using our own resources, the greater will be our failure.
Paul discovered this and wrote about it in his letter to the church in Rome (Romans 7:14-25). Until we realize how bankrupt we are, we will feel comfortable accusing and condemning ourselves, our leaders, the church, and everyone else, and, by doing so, unwittingly ally ourselves with Satan, the Accuser. (Revelation 12:10) Misery loves company.
The Price We Pay
When we judge others in an accusatory and condemning way, we heap judgment upon ourselves.
And we know that God, in his justice, will punish anyone who does such things. 3 Since you judge others for doing these things, why do you think you can avoid God’s judgment when you do the same things? Romans 2:2-3 (NLT)
Jesus also warned us about the flashback effect of improperly judging others.
Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. 2 For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged. Matthew 7:1-2 (NLT)
No one likes to be judged; yet, we often do it to others without regard for the negative consequences. Judging others restricts them and us. Judging others invites God’s judgment into our own lives. Judging others strips away our joy and peace.
When we improperly judge someone, we lose the ability to help or be helped by them.
When we judge and condemn those in authority, we may open the door for divine judgment to fall upon us. I am truly concerned about those who call themselves Christians and who seem to feel very comfortable railing at our president. (Acts 23:5). If you are not familiar with the stories of those who decided it was fine to attack and criticize Moses, you should read those accounts, such as found in Numbers 16. It is sobering.
Examples
- Sometimes I am surprised when church leaders say that the current broken state of society is the church’s fault. This presupposes that if we do everything right, everyone else will also do the right thing, which is totally false. Jesus did all the right things when it came to training his apostles: yet, one of them betrayed him. It certainly was not Jesus’ fault. God created Adam and Eve and gave them a perfect environment; nevertheless, at the first opportunity, they betrayed their Creator to follow Satan. Was that God’s fault? Of course not. Perfect parents, if there ever were such a thing, cannot guarantee that their children will turn out well.
Legalism’s false narrative is that if we can perform well enough, we can guarantee an outcome. The other side of the coin is that if we get a bad outcome, it was our fault.
If we accept the lie that the church is responsible to change the world through its performance, we fall into a legalistic trap that will lead to frustration, demoralization, or self-righteousness.
- Some people teach that God always physically heals us when we ask him. They cite scriptures that bolster this position and insist that God is always true to his word. Therefore, they reason, if we do not receive our healing, the fault must lie with us. People are taught to deny that they are sick, since God has healed them already. They are encouraged to repeat over and over the verses that promise healing, in the hope that faith will grow and God will be persuaded by our persistence. I remember once when I heard that the family of a man dying from cancer would admit no one who did not hold the same belief about positively confessing healing. People who properly discerned that it was his time to die were not allowed to console and encourage him as he approached the threshold into eternity. I thank God for his promises. I thank him that Jesus paid the price for my healing. I believe that we should trust him to do just what he promised, but I also realize that it is in God’s discretion and timing how he dispenses his grace and gifts. Everyone dies eventually, and only God knows when it is our time. Jesus holds the keys of hell and death. When that moment arrives, nothing is going to stop it from happening. Likewise, before it is time for us to die, nothing can take us out by stealth.
Surrendering our lives and health to a loving and sovereign God is the surest way to peace and being able to discern what the Spirit is speaking to us about our situation.
We should beware of legalistic formulas that supposedly guarantee spiritual outcomes.
Instead we should make it our priority to grow in our trust in our all-powerful and loving God, who always has our best interests in mind. When we do this, we fully trust his promises but leave the outcome to him.
(You can read more about this important topic in my book, Seeing God’s Smile, which can be purchased on Amazon.)
Conclusion
Life is so much easier and more joyful when we admit that we are spiritual paupers who depend on the mercy of God and have no right or business condemning others. There is a proper form of judgment, which amounts to wise discernment, but never morphs into condemnation. It is important that we refrain from judging ourselves, too. We get enough of that from the devil and other people.