Category: Keys to a Happier Life

The Chicken or the Egg?

 

Those who enjoy conundrums love to pose the question, what came first, the chicken or the egg? For those of us who are creationists, the answer if easy. God created chickens, giving them the ability to reproduce themselves. We face a similar question when it comes to our relationship with God.

Does Father God delight in us because we do the things that please him, or do we do what pleases him because he delights in us? The Bible gives us the answer: the chicken comes before the egg.

John tells us that we are able to love God because he first loved us.

This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. 1 John 4:10 (NLT)

Paul wrote that God loved us when we were still his enemies.

For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son. Romans 5:10 (NLT)

In fact, God loved us before he created the world, predating anything we might ever do to win his favor.

Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. Ephesians 1:4 (NLT)

There is only one way for us to be without fault. God exchanged our sin and guilt for Christ’s perfect righteousness.

For God made Christ, who never sinned, to be the offering for our sin, so that we could be made right with God through Christ. 2 Corinthians 5:21 (NLT)

Since God accomplished all this on our behalf before we were ever born, we know that his delight in us has nothing to do with our performance and everything to do with his beloved Son. God first loved us to enable us to love him back. The chicken came before the egg.

Father God declared his delight in his Son before he began his public ministry.

After his baptism, as Jesus came up out of the water, the heavens were opened and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and settling on him. 17  And a voice from heaven said, “This is my dearly loved Son, who brings me great joy.” Matthew 3:16-17 (NLT)

Father God’s love and delight in his Son launched him into a ministry that further delighted his Abba. Jesus delighted to do Father’s will and only did what pleased him. (John 8:28)

When we are born again, the Spirit of Christ indwells us, motivating us from within to please God, but first we must understand that we are already pleasing before we ever do anything.

Our ability to bring pleasure to our heavenly Father is based on the perfect right standing we have with him because of our position in Christ. What is true of Jesus is true for us.

God delights in us because he delights in the One who lives inside us.

The Holy Spirit works inside each born again person transforming us into people who love God and desire to please him.

For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him. Philippians 2:13 (NLT)

We try to please God, not to gain his favor, but because we already have his favor.

This is the profound difference between grace and legalism. Legalists become weary and frustrated by the vain attempt to be good enough to please God. God renews the strength of those who trust in his free gift of righteousness and operate out of the resting place of faith.

When we learn to rejoice in God’s delight in us, we will be motivated to serve him.

Likewise, we parents must make it a first priority to let our children know how much they delight us just because of who they are. We may not like everything they do, but our love for them transcends all that. The better job we do at communicating delight to to our family, friends, and co-workers, the more likely they are to respond positively. All of us desperately need to be loved. Do unto others…

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Escaping the Trap of Other People’s Expectations

 

Paul the apostle once wrote that it is unwise to compare ourselves to others. (2 Corinthians 10:12) In another place he said that he formerly evaluated people based on human judgment, but now he made it his goal to see people according to the Spirit.

So we have stopped evaluating others from a human point of view. At one time we thought of Christ merely from a human point of view. How differently we know him now! 17  This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun! 2 Corinthians 5:16-17 (NLT)

When we evaluate people improperly we can fall into two traps. On one hand, we may assume, based on outward appearances or first impressions, that they are more than they really are in the Spirit. On the other hand, we may focus on their faults and end up seeing and appreciating less than God has put in them.

It is sad and potentially devastating when we fail to recognize what is good about someone because we only see their shortcomings.

We may unintentionally communicate that we are less than pleased or delighted with them because they are not something, instead of letting them know that we appreciate who they are. This is especially prevalent when we relate to those who are very much unlike us. Sometimes we do not even know how to help and encourage them.

None of us can be who we are not, and we may never flower into who we are without the proper encouragement and love.

If we fail to delight in someone, we communicate judgment instead. It’s one thing to correct someone who is obviously sinning, but it is quite another to communicate a general or even subtle dissatisfaction with someone because they don’t measure up to some standard we set for them.

It is pointless and self-defeating to try to live up to other people’s expectations. Ultimately, we have only one person to please, the Lord, and he delights in us based on what Jesus did for us.

Paul wrote:

As for me, it matters very little how I might be evaluated by you or by any human authority. I don’t even trust my own judgment on this point. 4  My conscience is clear, but that doesn’t prove I’m right. It is the Lord himself who will examine me and decide. 5  So don’t make judgments about anyone ahead of time—before the Lord returns. For he will bring our darkest secrets to light and will reveal our private motives. Then God will give to each one whatever praise is due. 1 Corinthians 4:3-5 (NLT)

A good friend of mine once told me that what other people think about us is none of our business. Yet we may fall into the trap of allowing others to determine how we see ourselves.

The only safe way for us to view ourselves is through the lens of who we are in Christ.

If God is pleased with us, nothing else really matters. Jesus was able to endure the hostility of the Jewish leaders and Roman authorities because he was firmly convinced that his Father loved and delighted in him. He knew this because the Father told him so.

He was still speaking when, behold, a bright cloud overshadowed them, and a voice from the cloud said, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased; listen to him.” Matthew 17:5 (ESV)

What was and is true about Jesus is now true about us. The Father delights in us as much as in Jesus because we are now one with our Lord. We have been given Christ’s right standing with the Father. When we come before Father God, we come clothed in his righteousness. We are fully accepted in the Beloved Son.

All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ. 4  Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. Ephesians 1:3-4 (NLT)

We cannot afford to allow others to define who we are. We must decide that God alone defines our acceptability. None of us are perfect. Most of us have glaring weaknesses, but God is still fully pleased with us in Christ. The Holy Spirit is transforming us on a daily basis, but he does so in light of our being already fully acceptable to him because of Christ.

God wants us to do the same for others. Most of us can see where we and others fall short, and the Accuser of the Brethren, the devil, will help us out in this area, if we need it. Only the Holy Spirit can help us see people through the eyes of faith.

It is important for us to communicate in words, attitude, and demeanor that we love, appreciate, and delight in who others are in Christ, instead of judging them for what they are not.

We do this even when we must administer correction and discipline. The choice is ours. Will we receive God’s delight in us or the disappointment that may come from others? Will we choose to communicate love, acceptance, and delight in our brothers and sisters in the Lord and our natural children, or will we let them know that we are somewhat disappointed in them? Do unto others…

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Receiving and Giving Away Three Spiritual Treasures

 

 

 

 

 

When Jesus was transfigured before three of his disciples, they heard God the Father speak from heaven about his Son, Jesus.

While he [Peter] was still speaking, a bright cloud overshadowed them, and behold, a voice out of the cloud said, "This is My beloved Son, with whom I am well-pleased; listen to Him!" Matthew 17:5 (NASB)

What Abba Father spoke over Jesus communicated three spiritual truths or treasures that God wants every person to receive.

Jesus heard that he was loved, delighted in, and important. Another way to put this is that Abba told Jesus and his followers who he was (a beloved son), that he was accepted (well-pleasing), and that he had significance (listen to him). This provided Jesus with a sense of identity (part of the family), security (delighted in), and significance (has something important to say). Parents, especially fathers, are meant to communicate these three things to their children, too. If they do, they will equip their offspring to succeed in life. If they fail in this regard, it can create a void or wound that will need filling by someone or something else.

Identity

Knowing who we are is a foundation for successful living. We draw our identity from our parents, especially our fathers. We carry our parents’ DNA and are shaped by their example, words, and values. It is important for children to know that their parents “claim” them or acknowledge that they belong to them. Too many children have absentee parents today, leaving a void in their sense of identity. Abandoned children will likely infer that they are unworthy of being loved, establishing a negative identity and creating a deep wound in the heart. When fathers are poor examples of Abba, it leaves the child identifying with the bad example or trying to be not like their father. To be not something is a poor substitute for a positive identity.

When parents tell their children that they are beloved sons and daughters, it communicates a spiritual treasure and sets them on a solid foundation for future success. 

Security

It is one thing to be loved and quite another, sometimes, to be delighted in. Have you ever heard a parent say about his or her child, “I love him (or her), but I do not like him.”? Often parents love their children in the sense that they provide for, protect, and claim them as their own, but they fail to act as if or communicate that they delight in them. Children pick up on this, and it can create a deep sense of insecurity. All of us need for someone to delight in us, and, if parents fail to delight in their children, it sets the stage for them to seek for that elsewhere, making them vulnerable to those who wish to manipulate or abuse them.

However, when parents show their delight in their children, they communicate a second great treasure to them, which will make them secure as they launch out into life and in their dealing with others.

Significance

All of us want to feel significant – that we count for something or are important in some way. Abba Father told the whole world to listen to this Son, affirming his paramount importance. Every child needs to know that his parents regard him or her to be significant in some way. We all are; although, how we are important varies and sometimes may be obscured by our obvious defects.

The gift of encouragement is able to see by faith what is hidden beneath the surface and can assist in bringing it forth.

If parents communicate indifference or even negativity toward their children, it creates a wound and sets up a lie that promotes failure in many cases. Those with a more combative temperament may use such negativity as an incentive to succeed, but not from a secure position.

When parents affirm their children and help them to identify their areas of significance, it will help them to succeed.

The Source of All Blessings

The Bible teaches us that God the Father is the ultimate source of every blessing.

Whatever is good and perfect comes down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow. James 1:17 (NLT)

Those blessings that come through people originate in him. Earthly fathers are meant to imitate Abba by allowing His blessings to flow through them.

When earthly fathers speak blessings over their children, it opens a conduit from heaven in their lives.

When earthly fathers are passive or indifferent, it can prevent the desired blessing from being passed on to their children. If earthly fathers or mothers speak curses over their children, such as “You will never amount to anything.”,  it will create a wound and set up a lie that will likely be believed and acted out.

Ideally, natural fathers will bless their children and give to them to three spiritual treasures outlined above. Eventually, earthly fathers will be able to lead their children to put their faith and allegiance in Christ who will reveal the heavenly Abba to them.

The more faithfully natural fathers imitate Abba, the easier it will be for their children to receive Abba’s love.

The more natural fathers fail to imitate Abba, the more deformed will be their children’s concept of God.

The Remedy

Whether or not we were privileged to have fathers who blessed us, the ultimate blessing always comes from Abba. He gives us all that we need in Christ.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, Ephesians 1:3 (NASB)

Even if we had terrible earthly fathers, Abba can more than make up for their failures. Jesus came to forgive us for our sins and restore us to a right relationship with Abba. Our Lord promises to reveal Abba’s heart to us. All we have to do is ask him.

No man has ever seen God at any time; the only unique Son, or the only begotten God, Who is in the bosom [in the intimate presence] of the Father, He has declared Him [He has revealed Him and brought Him out where He can be seen; He has interpreted Him and He has made Him known]. John 1:18 (AMP)

If there is a hole or wound in our soul, it is important for us to make it a priority to allow Abba Father to speak into our hearts as he did over Jesus. His words bring life, healing, and faith.

The Spirit alone gives eternal life. Human effort accomplishes nothing. And the very words I have spoken to you are spirit and life. John 6:63 (NLT)

His words to us can undo the damage created by the neglect or evil done by our natural fathers.

Abba’s words can put within us a proper sense of identity, security, and significance that will propel us into our destiny.

Jesus was able to endure the hostility and attacks of his detractors because he had complete security in God. So can we with God’s help.

Prayer

Jesus, I did not receive from my earthly father all that I needed. I thank you that you died for my sins and reconciled me to my heavenly Father. I ask you to reveal our Father’s heart to me in a way that I can understand and receive. Help me to receive from him all I need to be all he wants me to be. Amen.

“My Father has entrusted everything to me. No one truly knows the Son except the Father, and no one truly knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.” Matthew 11:27 (NLT)
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Can We Know if We Are Going to Heaven?

Over the years I have asked many people this important question. If you were to die today, would you go to heaven? The usual answers are: “I hope so,” “No,” and “Yes.” The follow up question helps me to know how to proceed in the conversation. “Why do you think that?” Some respond by saying that they feel that they are basically good people. Others say that they go to church or try not to hurt anyone. Those who have heard the gospel and understand it reply that they have put their faith in Jesus to save them. Some who say that they have believed in Jesus are not sure whether they will go to heaven. Does God want us to be sure, or does he hold us in suspense in order to motivate us to keep on the “straight and narrow?” This begs a larger question, can we be truly saved and then lose that salvation, or are we permanently saved once we are born again? If the former is true, then we cannot know for sure if we are going to heaven until our last breath is exhaled, even if we are believers. If the latter is correct, then perhaps our eternal destiny can be known while we still live and breathe here on earth. 

In his first letter, John wrote that we can know for sure.

I have written this to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, so that you may know you have eternal life. 1 John 5:13 (NLT)

This verse hinges on the meaning of two words: believe and eternal.

Faith consists of at least four components: revelation, trust, allegiance, and obedience.

It is not mere mental assent to a set of doctrinal facts, as some suppose.

Faith is the result of an interaction in our hearts between the Word of God and the Holy Spirit.

The words of God carry within them an explosive capability to release revelation and faith. The Spirit of God takes the Word of God and “sparks” a divine internal “explosion,” which results in our being able to “hear” or truly understand, receive, believe, and respond to what God says or what is written in the Bible. Some people call this interaction the “rhema” word of God, as differentiated from the written or logos word of God. The key thing I want us to grasp is that people can read or hear what is written in the Bible without any attendant revelation or faith. Unless the Spirit of God is at work in a heart that is open and receptive, God’s words fall on deaf ears.

For the hearts of these people are hardened, and their ears cannot hear, and they have closed their eyes— so their eyes cannot see, and their ears cannot hear, and their hearts cannot understand, and they cannot turn to me and let me heal them.’ Matthew 13:15 (NLT)

When an open heart truly hears and believes God’s Word, a trust in God forms. This is because we begin to see or understand who God really is and what he has done for us and will do. Love for and loyalty to God follows, along with a developing obedience.

Real faith always produces obedience, even if it takes a while to develop. Faith without loyalty and obedience to God is not genuine faith. Probably it is mere mental assent or an emotional response without any substance. Jesus spoke of this in his parable of the sower and the seed.

The seeds on the rocky soil represent those who hear the message and receive it with joy. But since they don’t have deep roots, they believe for a while, then they fall away when they face temptation. Luke 8:13 (NLT)

Since faith grows out of a revelation of who God truly is, faith results in our knowing God.

This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. John 17:3 (NASB)

This is a spiritual knowing. It is one thing to know about God and quite another to truly know him. It is akin to how a married couple comes to know one another after making their vows. Sex in marriage results in a deep “knowing” that establishes a strong emotional and spiritual bond and, when everything is working properly, children or “fruit.” Our knowing God is in the spirit as a result of our spirits and God’s becoming one (1Cor. 6:17), which allows us to commune with him and know him.

Knowing God produces spiritual fruit in our lives called the fruit of the spirit. Our fruit will also be new people coming into the kingdom of God as a result of our testimony.

Likewise, my brothers, you also have died to the law through the body of Christ, so that you may belong to another, to him who has been raised from the dead, in order that we may bear fruit for God. Romans 7:4 (ESV)

When the Holy Spirit comes into our lives when we believe, he bears witness with our spirits that we are God’s children. 

For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16  The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, Romans 8:15-16 (ESV)

Now that we have explored the meaning of “believe,” let’s think about the word “eternal”. Its meaning is clear based on other teachings of Jesus. On many occasions, he taught his followers that those who believe in him will never die.

Simply put, having eternal life means we will never die, or as our Lord said in John Chapter Five, we have passed from death to life.

Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life. John 5:24 (NASB)

This important verse also tells us that those of us who truly believe in him will never be condemned to death for our sins. Jesus already took our condemnation upon himself at the cross. A debt never has to be paid twice. As a result, we have already passed from the realm of death into eternal life.

Those who truly believe in Jesus already have eternal life and will never die.

Jesus told her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Anyone who believes in me will live, even after dying. 26  Everyone who lives in me and believes in me will never ever die. Do you believe this, Martha?” John 11:25-26 (NLT)

Even though our pre-resurrection bodies will eventually cease to function, since they are still part of the old order of things because of Adam’s sin, the spirit within us, the new creation (2 Cor. 5:17) which has already been born into God’s kingdom, will never die. It cannot because it is united with God’s Spirit. (1 Corinthians 6:17) It has passed from death to life and from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of God’s Son. (Colossians 1:13) We are now seated with Christ at God’s right hand. (Colossians 3:1-4) He is in us, and we are in him. (John 14:20) As children of God, we are part of the family of God forever. (John 8:35)

The Holy Spirit is God’s seal of ownership that he puts on all who belong to him.

And now you Gentiles have also heard the truth, the Good News that God saves you. And when you believed in Christ, he identified you as his own by giving you the Holy Spirit, whom he promised long ago. 14  The Spirit is God’s guarantee that he will give us the inheritance he promised and that he has purchased us to be his own people. He did this so we would praise and glorify him. Ephesians 1:13-14 (NLT)

God knows those who belong to him.

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. 28  I give them eternal life, and they will never perish. No one can snatch them away from me, 29  for my Father has given them to me, and he is more powerful than anyone else. No one can snatch them from the Father’s hand. 30  The Father and I are one.” John 10:27-30 (NLT)

So do the angels and the demons.

Not only does the Spirit mark or seal us as God’s own possession, he is a type of down payment or earnest money guaranteeing that God will finish what he began in our lives.

And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns. Philippians 1:6 (NLT)

When we are born again, we receive the first installment of our “great salvation.” This part of our salvation might be called justification and is based on Christ’s past finished work on the cross. After being born again, we begin a daily process of being transformed so that our thoughts, words, and actions come into greater conformity with what is already true in our spirits. Some call this sanctification. It is a process requiring fresh grace or help from God moment to moment. The last installment will happen at the resurrection when our Adamic bodies will be transformed into new spiritual bodies that will never die.

The Scriptures tell us, “The first man, Adam, became a living person.” But the last Adam—that is, Christ—is a life-giving Spirit. 46  What comes first is the natural body, then the spiritual body comes later. 47  Adam, the first man, was made from the dust of the earth, while Christ, the second man, came from heaven. 48  Earthly people are like the earthly man, and heavenly people are like the heavenly man. 49  Just as we are now like the earthly man, we will someday be like the heavenly man. 1 Corinthians 15:45-49 (NLT)

Ephesians 1:14 tells us that the Holy Spirit is given as a pledge to those who were purchased by God and who now belong to him.

God purchased us by using the precious blood of his Son. We no longer belong to ourselves.

Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, 20 for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NLT)

To conclude, our wonderful salvation consists of three parts that work together to convince us that we indeed have been forgiven, saved, given eternal life, and belong to God.

For there are three that testify: 8  the Spirit and the water and the blood; and these three agree... 10  Whoever believes in the Son of God has the testimony in himself... 1 John 5:7,10 (ESV)

The blood is the price paid for our salvation. God the Father chose us from before the foundation of the world to be his children. (Ephesians 1:4-5) He sent his Son Jesus to die for our sins, shedding his precious blood in the process, which was the price paid to satisfy the wrath of God against our sins, provide forgiveness, allow Christ’s righteousness to be given to us in a great exchange, reconcile us to himself, give us eternal life, and make us his children.

The water refers to our declaration of faith and allegiance to Jesus our Lord which takes place at water baptism. God declared his love for us by sending his Son. (John 3:16) We declare our love for him by confessing him before men. This confession agrees with what God did for us through the blood of his Son.

The Spirit is God’s seal of ownership in our lives which inwardly testifies that we belong to him. He is the source of life and all blessings we have in Christ. He lives Christ’s life through us, something we could never accomplish on our own.

When we put our faith in Christ and his finished work, confess him before men, and receive the Spirit, these three things work together to convince us that we belong to God, have eternal life, and that God will indeed raise us from the dead as he promised.

All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is by his great mercy that we have been born again, because God raised Jesus Christ from the dead. Now we live with great expectation, 4  and we have a priceless inheritance—an inheritance that is kept in heaven for you, pure and undefiled, beyond the reach of change and decay. 5  And through your faith, God is protecting you by his power until you receive this salvation, which is ready to be revealed on the last day for all to see. 1 Peter 1:3-5 (NLT)
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How Jesus Sets Us Free from Shame

Those who look to him for help will be radiant with joy; no shadow of shame will darken their faces. Psalms 34:5 (NLT)

Shame can be either a painful negative emotion for having done something specific that was wrong of foolish, or it can be a general pervasive negative emotional state resulting from a chronic sense of self-reproach or sense of failure. The latter may originate in childhood and is more difficult to alleviate. Some of our shame is well-deserved. If we sin against God and others, shame can be the consequence. It certainly was for Adam and Eve.

The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it, too. 7  At that moment their eyes were opened, and they suddenly felt shame at their nakedness. So they sewed fig leaves together to cover themselves. Genesis 3:6-7 (NLT)

Sin reveals the unseemly side of us that most of us wish to conceal, as did Adam and Eve.

When the shame of our sin is exposed, we usually try to hide.

This can make relating to others a big challenge, since they/we often go to great lengths to prevent being known in certain areas in which we might feel ashamed. We anticipate that, if we are truly known, we may be rejected, which is sometimes the case, it turns out. As a result, sometimes we grow to like or love someone based on the façade presented to us, rather than the real person. This is unnerving to the person who is hiding because of the fear of one day being exposed. This kind of hiding can involve big issues or small. Eventually who we really are will surface, however, and that is when relationships get tested. This process can end in disillusionment, when we get rid of our illusions about the person and face the truth. This is often a necessary step in building a great relationship or marriage.

Deep friendships and great marriages can happen when people take down the façade and continue to love one another despite knowing the other person’s weaknesses and sin.

Conversely, friendships and marriages can rip apart if the deception and resulting disillusionment are too great. This can also happen in a church.

Most of the time we do not truly know a person until after we have a disagreement with them or go through a crisis together. How we weather those storms can more perfectly reveal the nature and depth of our relationship. One of my mentors once told me that he never truly trusted a person until after he had a fight with him. Whenever a new person or family joins our church, I am usually excited to get to know them. My hope is that they will prove to be good friends and valuable assets to the kingdom. In the back of my mind, however, is the realization that one day they may turn out to be just the opposite.

Disappointment and disillusionment are risks we take when we dare to love people.

There are countless numbers of believers who are drifting with no church home because at some point they were hurt and disillusioned by members of some local church. This is a very sad commentary. Part of the problem is that they were not prepared to encounter these things. If we are going to survive and thrive in a very sinful world, we must come to terms with the fact that people are not always who they pretend to be.

One person who is incapable of being disillusioned is God.

God knows us completely and anticipates every thought, world, and action we will ever take. Nothing we ever do surprises him.

O LORD, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. 2  You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I’m far away. 3  You see me when I travel and when I rest at home. You know everything I do. 4  You know what I am going to say even before I say it, LORD. 5  You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head. 6  Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand! Psalm 139:1-6 (NLT)

God’s omniscience makes it even more remarkable and encouraging that he chooses people to belong to him even before they are born.

All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ. 4  Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. 5  God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. Ephesians 1:3-5 (NLT)

Adoption is never by accident. It is an intentional act of love. Every child, whether biological or adopted, is a treasure. Parents may have some idea of who their biological children are, but the full revelation comes over time. Adoptive parents have less idea of who their children may be, since they usually have no idea what family traits may have been passed down. But God knows everything about all of us. He will never step back in disgust or disappointment after we make a huge misstep or sin, thinking that he made a mistake in choosing you or me.

God knew ahead of time all we would ever think, say, or do, and still chose to love us. This is a big antidote to shame.

Abandonment and rejection are at the root of much shame. These two things signify that the other person is of little value. Sometimes the reason for the abandonment or rejection is understood; sometimes, not. In the latter case, the affected person is left to imagine the reason. Little children are quick to assume blame, thinking that there must be something wrong with them. This can lead to the development of a pervasive since of shame mentioned in my opening definition.

Sometimes shame can be associated with sinful things we have done or were done to us. People who commit sexual abuse, for example, should feel shame for their actions; that is, until they experience the forgiveness and cleansing provided by our Lord Jesus. Children who are preyed upon also experience a sense of shame in many cases, even though the abuse was not their fault. Unfortunately, many predators tell their young victims that it was their fault, establishing a “lie-based stronghold” in that young one’s mind. This sort of lie must be replaced with the truth in order for shame to be eradicated.

Whether our shame was earned through our own sinfulness or improperly thrust upon us by some predator, Jesus has done everything necessary to set us free.

When Jesus hung naked upon the cross, enduring scorn, rejection, abandonment, injustice, and disgrace, he took that shame on our behalf, along with the shame attached to our sin. Just as He carried our sin and guilt to the cross, He also bore our shame there.

...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2 (NASB)

Because He carried our shame, we do not have to bear it. Here are some promises.

"Fear not; you will no longer live in shame. The shame of your youth and the sorrows of widowhood will be remembered no more, 5 for your Creator will be your husband. The LORD Almighty is his name! He is your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel, the God of all the earth. 6 For the LORD has called you back from your grief—as though you were a young wife abandoned by her husband," says your God. 7 "For a brief moment I abandoned you, but with great compassion I will take you back. 8 In a moment of anger I turned my face away for a little while. But with everlasting love I will have compassion on you," says the LORD, your Redeemer. Isaiah 54:4-8 (NLT)

But the LORD will save the people of Israel with eternal salvation. They will never again be humiliated and disgraced throughout everlasting ages. Isaiah 45:17 (NLT) 

Therefore it is also contained in the Scripture, "Behold, I lay in Zion A chief cornerstone, elect, precious, And he who believes on Him will by no means be put to shame." 1 Peter 2:6 (NKJV)

But that is now. Did Jesus ever liberate anyone from shame during his three-year itinerant ministry? The answer is “Yes!” He set free the demoniac, who endured the shame and disgrace attached to his condition. He was forced to live alone in the tombs away from society. Jesus healed lepers who had to isolate themselves and cry out “unclean” whenever they moved about. Jesus allowed the adulteress in John Chapter 8 to walk away forgiven and with dignity after rescuing her from those who would have stoned her to death for her publicly exposed sin. He forgave and restored Peter, who shamed himself and his Lord by denying him publicly three times. Jesus was big on delivering people from shame then and continues to be to this day.

Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Hebrews 13:8 (NLT)

Therefore, we who follow Christ must believe that our shame has been carried away by Our Lord Jesus Christ and we no longer must bear it. Jesus came to liberate his followers from shame. To believe and live out anything less is unbelief. We must throw off any oppressive weight of shame by faith in Christ’s finished work on the cross.

Now we have the privilege of honoring the One who was shamed for our sake.

We should make it our aim to honor and glorify God by putting our full trust in him and his promises and by boldly declaring the Gospel and name of Christ without fear of any shame the world may attempt to thrust upon us for doing that. If we are proud of our Lord, he will return the favor at the Last Judgment.

Everyone who acknowledges me publicly here on earth, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. 33  But everyone who denies me here on earth, I will also deny before my Father in heaven. Matthew 10:32-33 (NLT)

Let’s trust the Lord to help us to be bold witnesses for Christ. Whenever we may fall short, let’s quickly repent and receive forgiveness and cleansing from our sin and shame and have another go at it.

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Can I Know If I Am Doing Enough for God?

Recently someone I know suggested that if one gets too involved in politics, it brings into question his or her devotion to Christ. My first thought was, “who authorized you to be the judge of another person’s heart”? All of us are prone to judge others. It’s part of the human condition. Here is what Paul wrote about it.

Who are you to condemn someone else’s servants? They are responsible to the Lord, so let him judge whether they are right or wrong. And with the Lord’s help, they will do what is right and will receive his approval. Romans 14:4 (NLT)

Paul said in another place that he did not even judge himself. He left that up to the Lord, the only one who sees perfectly into our hearts and motivations. (1 Corinthians 4:3)

At times we get the idea that other people must measure up to the standard we set for them. One definition of a legalist is someone who demands everyone else come up to the level of righteous behavior he thinks he has attained. We like to do that to other people, but hate it when it is done to us. But God makes it clear that only he can adequately see into the heart and properly judge us. (1 Samuel 16:7) We tend to judge ourselves by our good intentions and others by their actions.

Even a leader as great as Moses failed in this area. Let’s not forget how reluctant he was to take on the leadership of Israel to guide them out of Egypt. He came up with all kinds of excuses, but finally he agreed. He should have been merciful to his people’s reluctance to follow God, but he became judgmental of them toward the end of their desert wanderings, which cost him the privilege of being able to lead them into the promised land. (Numbers 20:10-13)

When leaders judge the the people under their care, they stop properly representing God and may reap the judgment they sow.

This begs the question, is it even possible to measure our own or others’ devotion to Christ? What standard should we use? A great diagnostic question I sometimes ask is, “Are you doing enough for the Lord?” The answer will tell a lot about how someone understands what Christ has done for them. A friend of mine recently told me that he believed he had done enough that day. Naturally I asked him how did he know? He gave the perfect answer: he felt he had done what the Holy Spirit showed him to do that day.

The Bible says that Jesus fulfilled all the requirements of the Law on our behalf. (Romans 10:4) He measured up perfectly to God’s holy standard so that we do not have to do so. Therefore, we begin each day with an A+ on our spiritual report card. Now all that remains is for us to follow the leading of the Spirit, not to measure up, but simply for the joy of it.

Have you ever noticed that people who really enjoy their work usually go above and beyond what is required or expected? I have a friend who loves woodworking. He builds furniture for people and charges far less than what one would expect considering his labor. He does it because he loves his work. He refuses to cut corners even though he isn’t getting a proper return on his investment of time and effort. He produces a very good product because he loves and is good at what he does.

I spend quite of bit of time writing. For some people, writing is difficult and unpleasant; so, they don’t do much. For me writing comes fairly easily and is very satisfying. For that reason, I am happy to spend whatever time it takes to write and rewrite an article like this one because it brings me satisfaction and joy. No one is making me do this. I certainly am not getting rich. Because I love to write, I spend time to do it as well as I can and hope it benefits others and somehow glorifies the Lord.

Paul wrote that his labor in the gospel was done because of love.

For Christ's love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. 15  And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again. 2 Corinthians 5:14-15 (NIV)

Certainly not everything Paul did was fun, but he loved what he did because he loved his Lord and deeply appreciated all that Jesus did for him. Paul said that he worked harder than his contemporaries, but gave all the credit to God.

But whatever I am now, it is all because God poured out his special favor on me—and not without results. For I have worked harder than any of the other apostles; yet it was not I but God who was working through me by his grace. 1 Corinthians 15:10 (NLT)

Jesus also did his work for the joy of it. The author of the Letter to the Hebrews wrote:

We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne. Hebrews 12:2 (NLT)

Someone once said that, if you do what you love, you will never work a day in your life. Paul and Jesus worked very hard doing what they loved. Love compelled or motivated them to expend themselves for the Father’s and our sake.

I have never met a missionary who did not love missions. God seldom calls us to go against how he made us. Some women are tremendous mothers because they absolutely love being a mom. It is certainly not easy work, but love motivates them to be excellent. They take joy in their calling. Some fathers do a great job being a dad because they love their kids and greatly value having that role.

Those who resent what they do rarely go the “extra mile,” and they will certainly not inspire others. However, when someone loves what he does and goes above and beyond what is expected or required, his enthusiasm becomes contagious.

The elder brother of the prodigal son faithfully served his father, but not for the joy of it. His resentment bubbled up when his father blessed his younger repentant brother. Many of us Christians, sadly, are like the elder brother. We resent those in the church who do not seem to work as hard as we think we do because we are serving for the wrong reason. When love motivates us, we will joyfully serve whether or not anyone else does or not. We realize that we too are by nature reluctant to obey God at times; so, we extend mercy to others who have yet to “see the light.” People generally respond to our tone as much as they do to our words. If we are joyful in our service, we will more be more likely to inspire others.

No one likes to be “guilted” into obedience. God loves a cheerful giver, not someone who obeys merely because they are under duress. (2 Corinthians 9:7)

As a great man of God once said, “Expect the best from God and the worst from people, and you will never be disappointed.”

Can we know if we are doing enough for the Lord? By now I hope you see that this is the wrong question. First of all, Jesus has done it all for us already. Secondly, how can we even measure our devotion and performance, since only God can see into the heart? We are not even adequate to judge ourselves. Thirdly, what right do we have to make that judgment? Only the Accuser of the Brethren (Revelation 12:10) enjoys pointing out our deficiencies. God reserves to himself that responsibility, and the Bible says he is our advocate, not someone who condemns us. (Romans 8:33-34)

Perhaps a better question might be what is it that we truly love to do, and how can we translate that into blessing others and glorifying the Lord?

Do we love talking to people? How then can the Holy Spirit help us to nudge conversations toward the Lord? Do we love to be hospitable? How can that be used to make people feel welcome and loved? Do we love to fix things? How can we serve our neighbor in that way? Do we love to cook? How can we bless people with that gift and skill? Do we love to play golf? How can we use that sport to talk to people about Christ? Do we love to work with wood? How can we use that skill  to make connections with people and bless them? Do we love to kayak, camp, hunt, fish, sew, clean, do yard work… The list can go on and on.

You get the point. If we can serve others doing what we love to do, we will never resent or avoid it.

I have known someone who regularly shared the gospel in a public setting, who told me that seeing results was not his concern, only being obedient. I am fairly certain that he saw little fruit because people quickly pick up on whether or not we love them. His demeanor did not exude love. If we don’t care if someone comes to the Lord, why on earth should we bother? How can we properly represent Christ who laid down his life for his enemies? If we share the gospel out of a sense of duty, it will be less than inspiring to the one listening to our message. We need to realize that how we come across is an advertisement for what we share. We should never share the good news about Jesus merely to check off another task in the hope of eventually “doing enough.” We should share because we are excited about the Lord and want more people to know and love him as we do.

People will likely be more open to our message when they observe excitement and enthusiasm in the speaker.

Some of us pray only because we hope to get something from God for our efforts, and the Lord understands that. Sometimes our aspirations are quite noble and sometimes selfish. We may put in time in prayer in the hope that God will pour out revival. We may think that we have to earn it. But shouldn’t our motivation be something even higher? What if we prayed simply because we love to be in God’s presence? How would we like it if our spouse or child only came to us when they wanted ask us for something, but did not care to spend time with us otherwise? Isn’t that how many of us treat prayer?

It all boils down to our motivation. God’s motivation in all of this is crystal clear. He loves us past comprehension, wants to be with us, and wants the absolute best for us. King David discovered the joy of being in God’s presence. Here is a psalm he wrote, perhaps as a young man.

You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore. Psalm 16:11 (ESV)

These are not the words of a resentful, dutiful servant. David did not worship God when he tended sheep in the wilderness because someone made him do it. He did it for the sheer joy of being with God. Worshiping and spending time with God seemed to be one of his chief desires, at least when he was at his best. His love for God propelled him into worship, psalm writing, fighting God’s enemies, and government service. David was exceptional at most everything he did because, I believe, his love for God motivated him to give his very best. As was the case with Paul, he no longer lived for himself, but for God.

Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 17  And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father. Colossians 3:16-17 (NLT)

We see a progression here. Spend time with the Lord, in his Word and in worship, because we love him, and then we will be inspired and able to heartily and joyfully serve him and others as he directs.

Like us, David and Paul had their ups and downs. No one is perfectly consecrated all of the time, except for Jesus. We should not beat ourselves up when we fail. Since Jesus has already made us measure up, that is not a concern. The only thing we really should focus on is growing in our love for God and others. When love motivates us, we just naturally go the extra mile.

So instead of asking, “are we doing enough,” perhaps we should first thank Jesus for doing enough on our behalf and then ask him to so work in us so that we love him and other people more.

Perhaps we should follow David’s example and spend quality time with the Lord in the Word, worship, and prayer. Then perhaps we will find ourselves expending ourselves out of love for God and others, and no one will be able to rate our performance, because love cannot be measured, except by God, the one whom we serve and who loves us past comprehension.

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Finding Contentment in a Very Discontented World

 

 

Recently I sensed the Holy Spirit guiding me to read and study Solomon’s Ecclesiastes. It is a sort of “dark” cynical look at life from a secular vantage point for the most part, not a place you would expect to find something life giving. Was I wrong!

I have reached the age when I find myself looking backward in an assessment of my life, to some extent. Even if I reach the age of my parents, I am now in the last quarter of my earthly existence. Each day could be my last one here on planet earth; so, it’s a good thing to take stock of things in the hope of making my remaining days the best possible. In this Solomon and his father King David agree with me. We do not look backward in nostalgia or regret, hopefully, but to learn. I would like to think that what I have learned thus far has prepared me to finish well. How about you?

I have pastored Liberty Church / LifeNet for going on 34 years. Before that, I was an elder and assistant pastor at my father’s church in Greensboro for a number of years. In other words, I have been at this for most of my adult life. The church growth movement entered the scene during the seventies and eighties, which introduced a new sort of competitiveness among local churches. It became the goal of pastors to engineer a growing church, usually at the expense of neighboring churches. New Christians were not coming into the kingdom in record numbers; so, if a church enjoyed astronomical growth, it was because people were leaving their former churches to join the growing church. In general people want to feel good about themselves, and being part of a “happening” church can help with our self-image. It’s like pulling for a winning team. Everyone likes to win.

All sorts of methods and strategies were employed to insure growth, so much so that the idea of church franchises came into being. Church networks figured out how to blitz an area with advertising and launch a new fully funded church plant with a core of committed people which would be up and running in no time. I came to view these behemoths as “vacuum cleaner” churches because they were sucking up members of other churches by the droves. It would be like Walmart moving into an area and sucking customers away from the more traditional “mom and pop” stores. The movement toward huge has been a part of our society for a long time now.

For smaller churches to survive, they had to learn how to fill a niche, so to speak. For many, it was the promise of real community, which is more likely to happen in smaller groups. For charismatic churches, we could say that our churches were open and encouraging to the gifts of the Spirit, something megachurches shied away from to avoid offending the uninitiated. Every church seemed to be in competition for members, which harmed unity among pastors. Large church pastors sometimes looked down on small church pastors. Small church pastors were suspicious of the motives of megachurch pastors. Working together became difficult if not impossible. Even small churches competed among themselves for members. Among charismatic churches, following the latest spiritual “fad” might be a way to draw people. It had a wearying effect on me over the years as I watched people come and go in their search for something better than what we offered. Eventually I realized that I had had enough.

The last significant exodus from our church happened after we made the decision to become more “missional”. That is, we decided that making disciples would be our main thrust, since that is what Jesus commissioned us to do. We began to rethink how we did church and move toward a model that focused on helping people to become more intentional in their pursuit of discipleship. That required us to try to adequately define discipleship. What does it mean to be a disciple? I came to the conclusion that it meant following Christ and fishing for people.

We have been doing this for about twelve years now. Eventually we got rid of our building and began to meet in homes and other venues, believing that small groups offered the best opportunity to build solid relationships and influence our communities. We plunged into trying to impact our neighborhoods in various ways through friendship building, ministry projects such as doing yard work for needy people, hospitality, neighborhood watch creation, praying and ministering to people, etc. Over the years we saw some good fruit from this activity, but overall it was disappointing how few people seemed to want to join us in our quest to build an authentic community of disciples in a small group setting. Tradition is a huge influence, and not having a building made some regard us as a kind of cult. A lot of people expressed their liking for the idea of what we are doing, but few were willing to make the commitment. We grew little by little, but usually it was with people who just seemed to find us, rather than the people we pursued.

Then Covid hit, which effectively put an end to most outreach. People got used to being holed up at home and would look at you suspiciously if you simply showed up at their door. Our small groups continued to meet after a very brief time of Zooming, but some of our folks were still skiddish about going maskless and being in small groups. Many of us caught Covid and survived, even the ones who were jabbed. Eventually less people feared the dread disease and our groups are running as before the outbreak.

If Covid did nothing else positive for us, it got us all off the treadmill of trying hard to be a “successful” church. We were just glad to be with one another on this challenging journey called life.

This January we are in the process of fasting and praying for LifeNet. We are asking the Holy Spirit to speak to us as individuals, families, and as a church, and that brings me back to Ecclesiastes. I have been pastoring long enough that I have done most everything there is to do to grow a church. In fact, I am a sort of church growth expert, I tell people, because I have helped churches all over our area to grow. Many of our former members are happily ensconced elsewhere, as other churches’ members are now with us. We have tried most church growth strategies and found them wanting. Like Solomon, I can say.

Everything is wearisome beyond description. No matter how much we see, we are never satisfied. No matter how much we hear, we are not content. Ecclesiastes 1:8 (NLT)

I see people who are not content in their marriages, their jobs, their ministries, or their churches. I decided a long time ago that it is impossible to satisfy the needs of discontented people; so, I gave up trying. I truly enjoy being with people who are content in God’s love and how God made them, who they are in life, and with the people around them that they love. Yes, I still want to share the good news of what Jesus did for us to reconcile us to his Father. Yes, I still love teaching the Bible and ministering in the power and presence of the Holy Spirit. Yes, I still have a heart for lost and hurting people, but I do not want to try to make discontented people happy any more. Only God can do that.

This brings us to the whole idea of what it means to be content. Solomon shared what he thought brought contentment.

Even so, I have noticed one thing, at least, that is good. It is good for people to eat, drink, and enjoy their work under the sun during the short life God has given them, and to accept their lot in life. 19  And it is a good thing to receive wealth from God and the good health to enjoy it. To enjoy your work and accept your lot in life—this is indeed a gift from God. Ecclesiastes 5:18-19 (NLT)

Some of us are so engrossed in the pursuit of what we do not have that we fail to enjoy and appreciate what we do have. What a waste. I could lament that our church has never grown very large or I can rejoice in the wonderful family of friends that we have become. We can see life as a glass half empty or half full.

Contentment begins with appreciation for what we have.

That is a huge key to relational happiness as well. It is a very grave mistake to focus on another person’s faults because, if we are not careful, that is all we will be able to see. Likewise, we can fault find at work and at church. It never ends well because we always reap what we sow.

When we know we are loved and make it our goal to love others, we find a large measure of contentment.

John wrote about this in his first letter.

We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them. 17  And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world. 18  Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. 19  We love each other because he loved us first. 1 John 4:16-19 (NLT)

Earlier when I tried to define discipleship, I failed to mention love, which is a surprising oversight, since Jesus said that people will know we are his disciples by our love for one another. (John 13:35) How could I have missed that? Was it because I was still too focused on doing the work of making disciples rather than on being one? Was it because I was still pursuing something God has given to us? Was it because I was still missing the main point? Most likely. I was focused on teaching people the mechanics of being a disciple without properly emphasizing the heart of it.

When we are not sure that we are loved by God for who we are rather than for what we do, it engenders discontent. Picture a cat purring as it nestles up next to his owner. That is a great example of contentment.

God wants us to be thoroughly content in his love for us. That is the foundation from which we can do the work of the kingdom without sending a mixed message.

John Piper once said that God is most glorified when we are most satisfied in him.

There is a reason that Jesus rose from the dead on the day after the Sabbath. We begin our week resting in Christ’s victory. We start from a place of rest.

We are not trying to earn our victory or rest: it is a gift to us.

Jesus invited us to join him in his position of perfect contentment and rest.

Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. 29  Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30  For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 (NLT)

This is Jesus’ invitation to the discontent. Come to him to be set free from your wearisome pursuit. Learn what it means to be content in God’s love. Let that love overflow to those around you, including the lost.

When love is our foundation and the Holy Spirit is our guide, we will find contentment in whatever God gives us to do because we are content in who he is and who we are as his beloved children.

So don’t be surprised if I am not overly enthused with church growth strategies or methods to convince God to pour out revival on us. Been there, done that, and have the t-shirt. What makes me enthusiastic is being with my family of friends as we come together in God’s presence to talk about what it means to be God’s children. I am excited when the Holy Spirit opens a door to share God’s love with someone. We cannot orchestrate the Spirit of God. He orchestrates us.

I believe people who are searching for contentment will be drawn to those who have found it in God.

I also believe that discerning people will flee from any so-called gospel message delivered by someone who is using ministry to try and quench his or her desperate longing for acceptance by God. Why should I buy into a movement that makes its people discontent? When I came to Christ, he gave me peace and joy as I had never experienced before. When I share Christ, it is with the promise that he will open the door into the experience of God’s amazing love. Who we are is perhaps as important as what we say. People will pick up on our spiritual vibe as well as our words. If we carry in our person a different message from our words, people may doubt our words. It would be as if a harsh critical parent tells his child that he loves him or her. The mixed message inspires doubt instead of security. As we find our joy and contentment in God’s love, our demeanor will match the gospel message. People will be drawn toward the God who makes us content in his love.

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What do we do when we are confused and unsure what to do next?

 

 

 

God designed things so that much of life is quite mysterious. He created us with an inherent need to rely him for everything. It is not that we are stupid, but there is simply so much that we do not know, need to know, or even have the capacity to know.

The quest to know more than God is willing to share with us led to our downfall. As the old saying goes, curiosity killed the cat. The serpent preyed upon this desire to go beyond what God designed us to know when he tempted Eve to taste the forbidden fruit in order to “be like God,” knowing good and evil for themselves without having to rely on God to show them. Sadly, our Lord never intended for them or us to have that knowledge because he knew it would destroy us. It is humbling to admit we are so dependent by design.

Rather than giving us knowledge of everything, God gave us a capacity, desire, and need to live by faith.

As the old hymn says,

Many Things About Tomorrow,
I Don’t Seem To Understand;
But I Know Who Holds Tomorrow,
And I Know Who Holds My Hand.

Everyone lives by faith in something, even if it is faith that there is nothing worth believing. Faith is based on believing what is unprovable using scientific methodology. The great mysteries of life must be accepted by faith.

  • Is there a God?
  • What is the purpose of life?
  • What happens after death?
  • What do I do next?

Thankfully, faith does not have to be blind. In fact, it should not be. Faith should be based on something rock solid. God has given us his written Word, called the Bible. He has also given us the Holy Spirit.

But it was to us that God revealed these things by his Spirit. For his Spirit searches out everything and shows us God’s deep secrets. 1 Corinthians 2:10 (NLT)

The Spirit of God reveals things to us. He speaks to our hearts and opens our minds to understand the scriptures. This is the kind of knowledge that God permits and encourages.

Revelation from the scriptures and from the Spirit are gifts from God and minister life to us, just the opposite of what happened in the garden when the wrong kind of knowledge was pursued.

But sometimes God withholds what we might consider to be necessary key information, leaving us feeling alone, confused, and very unsure of ourselves and what to do next. This happened to King Saul near the end of his life. Because of disobedience, his access to hearing God speak to him through the prophets and by other means had been cut off. He came to a huge crisis and did not know where to turn. In his desperation, he resorted to consulting a medium or necromancer, one who brings up the dead for consultation. This was strictly forbidden, but he was so desperate that he was willing to try anything. He asked the witch of Endor to bring Samuel the prophet back from the dead. The result was not pretty. Samuel did indeed come back only to prophesy his impending death in battle.

When we get confused, afraid, and desperate to know what to do next, we should never resort to forbidden or occult forms of knowledge, as did Saul, Adam, and Eve. Such a time is a glorious opportunity for us to demonstrate our faith that God will reveal to us whatever we need to know.

If the Lord is not showing us anything, it is because we do not need to know.

Instead, God wants us to simply trust in him.

The Bible gives us a great example. Large crowds were following Jesus. His popularity was soaring, but knowing the fickleness of people, Jesus deliberately taught them some things that were difficult to comprehend and offensive to those who did not yet grasp his true identity as the Messianic King. When Jesus told the crowd that he is the bread of life and they must “eat” him to have life, the crowd was offended, not understanding the meaning.

Many of his disciples said, “This is very hard to understand. How can anyone accept it?” 61  Jesus was aware that his disciples were complaining, so he said to them, “Does this offend you? 62  Then what will you think if you see the Son of Man ascend to heaven again? 63  The Spirit alone gives eternal life. Human effort accomplishes nothing. And the very words I have spoken to you are spirit and life. 64  But some of you do not believe me.” (For Jesus knew from the beginning which ones didn’t believe, and he knew who would betray him.) 65  Then he said, “That is why I said that people can’t come to me unless the Father gives them to me.” 66  At this point many of his disciples turned away and deserted him. 67  Then Jesus turned to the Twelve and asked, “Are you also going to leave?” 68  Simon Peter replied, “Lord, to whom would we go? You have the words that give eternal life. 69  We believe, and we know you are the Holy One of God.” John 6:60-69 (NLT)

When life is confusing and it seems that God has let us down, that is the time fall back on what we do know.

God is good and trustworthy, and we can trust in him even when nothing else makes sense. We do not have to know everything. We just need to rely on the one who does.

To the uninitiated, living by faith without concrete proof of what is happening or going to happen, can be disconcerting. But when we learn to operate using this kind of faith, it produces a deep sense of joy and peace. God is more trustworthy than what we can see with our eyes or understand with our minds.

For we live by believing and not by seeing. 2 Corinthians 5:7 (NLT)

When we put our faith in him, he gives us a peace that passes understanding.

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7  Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 (NLT)

So, when we are confused and unsure what to do next, it is time to find shelter in the “secret place” of God’s presence until he chooses to reveal what is the next thing we need to know. Until then we can choose to be content in knowing him.

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Meditations on God’s Greatness Inspire Faith, Peace, and Worship

 

Every day when we look upon God’s creation, we are meant to be profoundly impacted by it. What God made reflects who he is.

The heavens proclaim the glory of God. The skies display his craftsmanship. Psalm 19:1 (NLT)

Think about what we know about the heavens. When we look into the night sky, we are impacted by its mystery and immensity. Modern telescopes have revealed that the universe is much larger than we ever would have imagined, with thousands of gigantic far off galaxies filling the heavens. How big is the universe? What else have we yet to discover?

Our meditations on the universe point us to the Creator who is also far greater and more mysterious than we ever could imagine.

Like the heavens, which draw us to explore them, God wishes his people to be drawn toward him in a never ending quest to know him better.

Oh, that we might know the LORD! Let us press on to know him. He will respond to us as surely as the arrival of dawn or the coming of rains in early spring.” Hosea 6:3 (NLT)

Consider the oceans. One cannot help but be impressed with their grandeur, power, and immensity. The seas can be incredibly peaceful and terrifyingly angry and threatening. The power of a storm tossed ocean can sweep away everything man-made from a shoreline. The calm drum of the surf beating upon the sand can also give us a wonderful background noise for an afternoon nap. Who knows what mysteries still await exploration in its immense depths? What animals reside there which have yet to be discovered? All of this points our hearts toward the Creator, if we have eyes to see, ears to hear, and hearts to understand.

The grandeur of the mountains inspire us with God’s greatness, too. Their stability encourages us to be at rest in our hearts and let go of our pointless striving and worry. Imagine the incredible power it took to push them up from the surrounding plains! Imagine the God who created all of what we see from the Word of his power and upholds everything moment by moment.

And now in these final days, he has spoken to us through his Son. God promised everything to the Son as an inheritance, and through the Son he created the universe. 3  The Son radiates God’s own glory and expresses the very character of God, and he sustains everything by the mighty power of his command. When he had cleansed us from our sins, he sat down in the place of honor at the right hand of the majestic God in heaven. Hebrews 1:2-3 (NLT)

The Creator God has the power to uphold life or snuff it out in an instant. Our continued existence depends upon his conscious and deliberate maintenance of his upholding power. For God, nothing is too difficult. What we see as impossibilities are not even a challenge.

No, for all the nations of the world are but a drop in the bucket. They are nothing more than dust on the scales. He picks up the whole earth as though it were a grain of sand. Isaiah 40:15 (NLT)

Nothing can overcome God’s plan for this world and our own lives. He is unchanging in his purpose to bring glory and honor to his Son by bringing every single being and thing into proper submission to him.

After that the end will come, when he will turn the Kingdom over to God the Father, having destroyed every ruler and authority and power. 25  For Christ must reign until he humbles all his enemies beneath his feet. 26  And the last enemy to be destroyed is death. 27  For the Scriptures say, “God has put all things under his authority.” (Of course, when it says “all things are under his authority,” that does not include God himself, who gave Christ his authority.) 28  Then, when all things are under his authority, the Son will put himself under God’s authority, so that God, who gave his Son authority over all things, will be utterly supreme over everything everywhere. 1 Corinthians 15:24-28 (NLT)

Never fear. Nothing can stop the inexorable movement of all creation toward God’s intended purpose.

All the people of the earth are nothing compared to him. He does as he pleases among the angels of heaven and among the people of the earth. No one can stop him or say to him, ‘What do you mean by doing these things?’ Daniel 4:35 (NLT)

Our proper response to God’s greatness is to worship.

How can we not surrender fully to such a God? How can we not worship him? In addition, we are to rest in his greatness.

“Be still, and know that I am God! I will be honored by every nation. I will be honored throughout the world.” Psalm 46:10 (NLT)

I encourage all of us to meditate often upon these things. It will inspire faith, help us to enjoy peace, and promote worship. Hopefully the result will be our growth into a greater knowledge and appreciation of our Creator, Sustainer, and Redeemer.

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Expand Your Impact by Narrowing Your Focus

 

To have significance is one of life’s basic longings; yet, most of us live in relative obscurity and wonder how important are we in the grand scheme of things? Few of us directly impact the lives of large numbers of people. Instead we touch a relatively small number of individuals. How can we make a more significant mark in life?  I believe it can happen by narrowing our focus.

If we were given the choice between preaching to a thousand people or discipling one, which would we choose? Few of us would be comfortable as that preacher, but most of us can see ourselves taking on a single disciple. Barnabas in the Book of Acts was significant enough to be mentioned several times in the Bible, but what was his main claim to fame? He was an encourager. In fact that is what his name means. He came alongside two men in his his lifetime who were operating in relative obscurity. One was Paul and the other was John Mark. God used Barnabas to help lift those men into major ministries that eclipsed Barnabas’. Paul became perhaps the greatest of all the apostles and the author of much of the New Testament. John Mark wrote one of the gospels and became a faithful co-laborer with Paul. We do not know much about anything else Barnabas went on to do. His reward and significance will be forever connected to those he helped.

Significance in life is largely measured through those we help along the way.

Barnabas was able to encourage others because he was full of faith.

When the church at Jerusalem heard what had happened, they sent Barnabas to Antioch. 23  When he arrived and saw this evidence of God’s blessing, he was filled with joy, and he encouraged the believers to stay true to the Lord. 24  Barnabas was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and strong in faith. And many people were brought to the Lord. 25  Then Barnabas went on to Tarsus to look for Saul. 26  When he found him, he brought him back to Antioch. Both of them stayed there with the church for a full year, teaching large crowds of people. (It was at Antioch that the believers were first called Christians.) Acts 11:22-26 (NLT)

The ministry and art of encouragement hinges on our having faith and vision for people beyond what they currently have for themselves. With God’s help, parents can see things in their children and help them develop. Husbands and wives can do the same for each other. This is also true for others God brings into our lives. We should consider that our significance derives from helping others flourish. Our joy should be increased by making others successful. Seeing them eclipse us should be our crowning achievement.

For the majority of us personal significance will be found in how well we love, encourage, and develop those around us.

Parents’ most important disciples are their children. The future of the kingdom of God somewhat rests on the shoulders of the upcoming generations. How well parents invest in their children will have a great impact. God blessed my wife and I with four amazing children. They have expanded our impact in the world beyond anything we could have done personally. We fully expect their children and grandchildren to keep the chain going.

What if all of us decided to narrow our focus to discipling and encouraging at least one person to fulfill his or her calling in God in the coming year? How would that impact the world? What if we narrowed our focus to helping others? Perhaps we could all become like Barnabas by leaving an indelible mark on the world through the people we touch and encourage along the way.

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