Category: Keys to a Happier Life

Surrender Unlocks the Door to God’s Secret Place

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God has a secret place where we can find refuge from the trials and tempests of life. We gain entrance to that peaceful place by unconditionally surrendering to the Lord. Peace is one of God’s greatest gifts, which can never be enjoyed by the wicked, those who have never received forgiveness for their sins through Christ’s shed blood. Peace comes as a byproduct of being justified or made right with God.

Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. Romans 5:1 (NLT)

We experience the peace that Christ won for us by placing our faith in his completed work on the cross, declaring publicly our allegiance to our Lord, and surrendering anything that is working actively against our peace to him in prayer.

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say, rejoice! 5 Let everyone see your gentleness. The Lord is near! 6 Do not be anxious about anything. Instead, in every situation, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, tell your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:4-7 (NET)

In warfare, strife ceases and peace comes when one side unconditionally surrenders. As long as two opposing wills vie for supremacy, there can be no peace.

God’s will must triumph over ours if we wish to enter the secret place of God.

We are surrounded by Satan’s demonic forces who wish to destroy us, but, surprisingly, sometimes we are our own worst enemies.

Any fear or mistrust we may harbor in our hearts toward God can sabotage our efforts to be loyal to Him.

God is working out his plan for our lives, but if we stubbornly and fearfully refuse to go along with that plan, we may find ourselves opposing God and in need of His correction and deliverance.

Surrender to God and His will requires that we lay down our own agendas and our desire to control our lives.

It means that we must be open to the possibility that God will require us to go through something we dread. This possibility does not seem like good news. In fact, some of my readers may be rebuking this idea already, thinking it is outside of God’s will. But consider that Jesus warned Peter that in his latter years he would be required to go where he did not wish to go.

I tell you the truth, when you were young, you were able to do as you liked; you dressed yourself and went wherever you wanted to go. But when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and others will dress you and take you where you don’t want to go.” 19 Jesus said this to let him know by what kind of death he would glorify God. Then Jesus told him, “Follow me.” John 21:18–19 (NLT)

History tells us that Peter was martyred for his allegiance to Christ by being crucified upside down. Jesus knew that almost everyone of his disciples would die for their testimony; yet, he was not hesitant to call them to follow him. God is not squeamish about calling us to suffer for his sake.

For to you it has been granted for Christ’s sake, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for His sake, Philippians 1:29 (NASB95)

Paul was informed at the time of his conversion that he would suffer greatly for his allegiance to Christ.

But the Lord said to him, “Go, for he is a chosen instrument of Mine, to bear My name before the Gentiles and kings and the sons of Israel; 16 for I will show him how much he must suffer for My name’s sake.” Acts 9:15–16 (NASB95)

Peter and Paul surrendered themselves to Christ and his call upon their lives. They refused to run from or resist the call to suffer, which allowed them to experience God’s peace in the midst of what otherwise might have made them fearful.

Unless we unconditionally surrender to God, we cannot have unconditional peace.

Wisdom tells us that, no matter what God may allow to come into our lives, we are first to acknowledge His sovereignty, seek Him and His will in the matter, and then engage the enemy as directed.

When the Philistines attacked David, his first response was to seek the Lord, Who gave him specific instructions regarding how to proceed. Too often Christians flail about in sometimes misguided attempts to fend off spiritual attacks, rather than seek the Lord, who may be allowing the attack in order to do a deep work in the believer.

Sometimes the only way we can find freedom is by going through the very thing we fear so that we discover that God is greater.

When Jesus stood before Pilate, our Lord declared that the Roman ruler could only do to Him what God allowed.

So Pilate said, “Do you refuse to speak to me? Don’t you know I have the authority to release you, and to crucify you?” 11 Jesus replied, “You would have no authority over me at all, unless it was given to you from above. Therefore the one who handed me over to you is guilty of greater sin.” John 19:10-11 (NET)

Before going to the cross, at which time darkness would temporarily rule, Jesus first did business with His heavenly Father – the ultimate Ruler in every situation.

When we find ourselves in a test or trial, we should first go to God and be sure our hearts and wills are submitted to what He wishes to accomplish in our lives through the trial.

It is only against that backdrop of trust and submission that we can know more perfectly what other actions we must take. If instead we simply begin to engage in what we might want to call “spiritual warfare,” we may find ourselves unhappily resisting God Himself. Imagine if Jesus had rebuked Satan instead of surrendering to death as God’s Lamb! This is what Peter advised his Master to do, but Jesus rebuked his misguided friend by telling him that he did not have the things of God in mind. Imagine how foolish it would be for us to fearfully rebuke a pending trial that may be the avenue for our knowing Christ as Provider, Healer, or in whatever other way God wants us to know Him!

Check in with God first. Find out what He wants to do in us; then, join His program. This is what it means to have Christ as Lord.

A severe trial will often cause whatever rebelliousness and fear we still may have deeply buried in our hearts to bubble to the surface. God knew it was there all along, but we may be surprised to discover what is hidden inside of us.

The fire of affliction tests and reveals our hidden motives and the nature and strength of our faith. If we know God loves us enough to expose these things in order to deliver us, we will better be able to endure the process by faith.

Unless we go through the fire, we never know for sure what is inside us. Until we face our fears, the strength of our faith may be somewhat of a mystery. Soldiers who have never been in combat wonder what they will do under fire. No one can know for sure ahead of time. Once we go through our first battle, however, we know.

That which we previously dreaded can become for us a gateway into overcoming faith after we have faced it and found that God’s grace is sufficient and his promises are true.

Job had to endure what he feared so that his subtle self-righteousness and pride would bubble to the surface. God was far more interested in revealing Himself in a greater way to Job than in keeping him pain free.

When we realize that character transformation is a higher priority than our comfort and ease, we will begin to better understand God’s ways.

If we choose to be pliable in His hands, the Lord can mold us how He wishes. As long as our peace hinges on our obtaining a certain set of conditions or a certain answer to prayer, we will always be subject to the fear that God will not grant our wish. Being enslaved to our circumstances is a terrible way to live because we can never be completely at rest. What we dread could be just around the corner…and then what? It is no use trying to insulate ourselves from what we fear by “having enough faith.”

Faith was never designed to protect us from trials: rather, it keeps us while we are in trials.

Ponder Christ’s words:

I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. In the world you have trouble and suffering, but take courage — I have conquered the world. John 16:33 (NET)

If we believe that trusting in Christ is our ticket to a trouble free life, we are in for a shock. Nothing could be further from the truth. We are actually appointed to tribulations.

We sent Timothy, our brother and fellow worker for God in the gospel of Christ, to strengthen you and encourage you about your faith, 3 so that no one would be shaken by these afflictions. For you yourselves know that we are destined for this. 1 Thessalonians 3:2-3 (NET)

Trials, afflictions, suffering and tribulations work for us. They teach us perseverance and build character. Here is what Paul wrote to the church in Rome.

Not only this, but we also rejoice in sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4 and endurance, character, and character, hope. 5 And hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. Romans 5:3-5 (NET)

When we resolve to use life’s tests and trials as opportunities to trust in God’s love and ability to keep and deliver us, we can experience unconditional peace. I call this “unconditional peace” because it does not depend on any outward circumstance or condition. Whether we live or die, we can have peace. Whether we get the answer we want or not, we have peace.

Peace resides in a Person, and His name is Jesus. As we fully surrender to that Person, we receive all of what that Person has and is.

One of His titles is the Prince of Peace. His peace becomes our peace, a peace that can never be shaken.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you; I do not give it to you as the world does. Do not let your hearts be distressed or lacking in courage. John 14:27 (NET)

Moses wrote about this place of surrender and peace. It is a secret place hidden from life’s storms and the threats of the enemy. It is a place where God’s peace and presence reign undisturbed. We have access to that secret place by surrendering unconditionally to the Lord in every circumstance.

As for you, the one who lives in the shelter of the sovereign One, and resides in the protective shadow of the mighty king — 2 I say this about the LORD, my shelter and my stronghold, my God in whom I trust. Psalm 91:1-2 (NET)

We can only experience this sort of overcoming faith if we are convinced that God loves us more than we can imagine, is faithful to keep his promises, and is working all things for our good and his glory. (Romans 8:28)

 

SeeingGodsSmile nooksizeYou can read more about the secret place of God’s unconditional peace in my book, Seeing God’s Smile When Life Is Difficult, which can be ordered from Amazon. I wrote this to help people through severe trials, but is helpful to all who wish to develop overcoming faith.

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Passing On Three Spiritual Treasures

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God gave us three spiritual treasures in his Son, Jesus. If we receive these by faith, we can give them away to others. When Jesus was transfigured before three of his disciples, they heard God the Father speak from heaven about his Son, Jesus.

While he [Peter] was still speaking, a bright cloud overshadowed them, and behold, a voice out of the cloud said, "This is My beloved Son, with whom I am well-pleased; listen to Him!" Matthew 17:5 (NASB)

What Abba Father spoke over Jesus communicated three spiritual truths or treasures that God wants every one of his born-again children to receive. Jesus heard his Father tell him that he is loved, pleasing, and significant. Another way to put this is that Abba affirmed Jesus’ identity as a beloved son. Abba confirmed Jesus complete acceptance in that he was well-pleasing, and that he Jesus is significant and should be given heed.

Abba gave Jesus a secure sense of identity, acceptance, and significance, which all parents, especially fathers, are supposed to communicate to their own children, too.

If fathers communicate these things, it will equip their offspring to succeed in life. If they fail in this regard, it can create a void or wound that will need filling by someone or something else.

Identity

Knowing who we are is a foundation for successful living. We draw our identity from our parents, especially our fathers. We carry our parents’ DNA and are shaped by their example, words, and values. It is important for children to know that their parents “claim” them and acknowledge that they belong to them.

Too many children have absentee parents today, creating a void in their sense of identity. Abandoned children often wrongly deduce that they are unworthy of being loved, which establishes a negative identity and creates a deep wound in the heart. When a father is a poor examples of Abba, it leaves the child identifying with his bad example or trying to be not like his father. To be not something is a poor substitute for a positive identity.

When parents tell their children that they are beloved sons and daughters, it imparts the spiritual treasure that they are treasured and sets them on a solid foundation for future success. 

Security

It is one thing for a parent to love a child and quite another for that parent to show delight in him or her. I have heard parents say something like the following: “I love my child, but I do not like him.” Often parents love their children in the sense that they provide for, protect, and claim them as their own, but they fail to act as if or communicate that they genuinely delight in them. Children pick up on this mixed message, and it can create a deep sense of insecurity. It may cause our child to wonder what is wrong with me that makes me so unlovable. It may signal to her that God does not delight in her either. All of us need for someone to delight in us, and, if parents fail to delight in their children, it sets the stage for us to seek for that elsewhere, making us vulnerable to those who might wish to manipulate or abuse us.

However, when we show delight in our children, we impart a second great treasure which can contribute to their being secure as they launch out into life and have to deal with others who may not be so kind.

Significance

All of us want to feel significant, too. We want to believe that we count for something or are important in some way. Abba Father told the whole world to listen to this Son, affirming his paramount importance. Every child wants to know that his parents regard him to be significant in some way. We all are important in God’s eyes; although, how we are important varies and sometimes may be obscured by our obvious defects.

The gift of encouragement is able to see by faith what is hidden beneath the surface and can assist in bringing it forth.

If we as parents are being challenged with identifying a child’s significance, we should ask the Holy Spirit to enlighten us. If we communicate indifference or even negativity toward our children, it creates a wound and sets up a lie that promotes failure in many cases. Those with a more combative temperament may use such negativity as an incentive to succeed, but not from a secure position.

When we affirm our children and help them to identify their areas of significance, it will help them to succeed.

The Source of All Blessings

The Bible teaches us that God the Father is the ultimate source of every blessing.

Whatever is good and perfect comes down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow. James 1:17 (NLT)

Those blessings that come through people originate in him. Earthly fathers are meant to imitate Abba by allowing His blessings to flow through them.

When earthly fathers speak blessings over their children, it opens a conduit from heaven in their lives.

When earthly fathers are passive or indifferent, it can prevent the desired blessing from being passed on to their children. If earthly fathers or mothers speak curses over their children, such as “You will never amount to anything.”,  it will create a wound and set up a lie that will likely be believed and acted out.

Ideally, natural fathers will bless their children and give to them the three spiritual treasures outlined above. Eventually, earthly fathers will be able to lead their children to put their faith and allegiance in Christ who will reveal the heavenly Abba to them.

The more faithfully we natural fathers imitate our heavenly Father, the easier it will be for our children to receive Abba’s love.

The more we fail to imitate Abba, the more deformed will be our children’s concept of God.

The Remedy

Whether or not we were privileged to have fathers who blessed us, the ultimate blessing always comes from Abba. He gives us all that we need in Christ.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, Ephesians 1:3 (NASB)

Even if we had terrible earthly fathers, Abba can more than make up for their failures. Jesus came to forgive us for our sins and restore us to a right relationship with Abba. Our Lord promises to reveal Abba’s heart to us. All we have to do is ask him.

No man has ever seen God at any time; the only unique Son, or the only begotten God, Who is in the bosom [in the intimate presence] of the Father, He has declared Him [He has revealed Him and brought Him out where He can be seen; He has interpreted Him and He has made Him known]. John 1:18 (AMP)

If there is a hole or wound in our soul, it is important for us to make it a priority to allow Abba Father to speak into our hearts as he did over Jesus. His words bring life, healing, and faith.

The Spirit alone gives eternal life. Human effort accomplishes nothing. And the very words I have spoken to you are spirit and life. John 6:63 (NLT)

His words to us can undo the damage created by the neglect or evil done by our natural fathers.

Abba’s words can put within us a proper sense of identity, security, and significance that will propel us into our God-given destiny.

Jesus was able to endure the hostility and attacks of his detractors because he had complete security in God. So can we with God’s help.

Prayer

Jesus, I did not receive from my earthly father all that I needed. I thank you that you died for my sins and reconciled me to my heavenly Father. I ask you to reveal our Father’s heart to me in a way that I can understand and receive. Help me to receive from him all I need to be all he wants me to be. Amen.

“My Father has entrusted everything to me. No one truly knows the Son except the Father, and no one truly knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.” Matthew 11:27 (NLT)
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Overcoming the Pain of Self-Inflicted Loneliness

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For most people, loneliness is a painful and undesirable condition. We may experience it through no fault of our own, or it may be that we bring it upon ourselves. We may be our own worst enemy, repelling potential friends because we blindly hate in others what we despise in ourselves.

You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you are condemning yourself, for you who judge others do these very same things. Romans 2:1 (NLT)

We may experience self-inflicted loneliness by being critical and judgmental toward ourselves and others.

As anyone who has lived very long knows, most of us do not respond well to criticism. When criticize others, it reveals that we see ourselves as their judge. It is difficult to be the friend of a judge.

Jesus was called the “friend of sinners.”

Tax collectors and other notorious sinners often came to listen to Jesus teach.  2  This made the Pharisees and teachers of religious law complain that he was associating with such sinful people—even eating with them! Luke 15:1-2 (NLT)

It was a derogatory title pinned on him by the Jewish religious leaders, who held many of those whom Jesus befriended in contempt. Those leaders believed that they were morally superior because of their knowledge of the Law and their imagined adherence to it. The truth is that we all fall short of God’s glory and fail to measure up to his standard of righteousness. (Romans 3:23)

No one is ever in a place to despise other human beings.

Jesus, on the other hand, who was truly superior in every way, gladly chose to be with those whom the religious leaders shunned. Those labeled as “sinners” picked up on Jesus’ love and were attracted to him, at least the ones whose hearts were open to his message of hope and forgiveness. The interesting thing is that Jesus calls us to leave our sin and follow him, but he does it in such a way that draws humble people toward him rather than pushing them away, as the religious hypocrites did.

Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. 29  Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30  For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 (NLT)

Criticism breeds criticism. Rejection usually experiences rejection in return, but love draws people.

Only God has the right to condemn people for their sins. Thankfully, he provided a remedy for our guilt in his Son, who died on our behalf in order to provide forgiveness and reconciliation. Those who reject the good news that Jesus took our sins upon himself, can only expect judgment from God when they die and stand before him. However, those who believe the gospel receive and enjoy God’s love. God’s heart is open toward anyone who is willing to admit his or her desperate need for forgiveness and help.

Pride is harsh and unforgiving, but humility is gentle and inviting. Pride inspires us to criticize and judge others; while, humility prompts us to show mercy.

Demonstrating humility is a huge key to overcoming self-inflicted loneliness by drawing and keeping friends.

Mature followers of Christ learn how to make proper assessments of people without descending into thinking we are somehow superior. Jesus completely knows people and their motives, but that did not keep him aloof or prevent him from being kind and merciful toward us. Nothing is hidden from him, but his heart remains open to those who are open to him, regardless of their shortcomings and failures. That is one reason we have hope.

We may find that those we formerly criticized and rejected have much to offer in the way of friendship, if we treat them as we wish to be treated. We can ask the Holy Spirit to take the “log” out of our own eyes, so that we will be able to properly see others through God’s eyes. If we make the effort to be friends with those whom we may be tempted to judge, just maybe someone will decide to be a friend of that other sinner each of us knows so very well.

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We Will Never Measure Up in God’s Eyes

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Most of us want some way to measure how we are doing or to learn where we are on the journey called life. That is why most companies set goals and then measure their progress against their ambitions. In relationships, we want to have clear signals regarding how we are perceived or regarded by individuals or groups to whom we relate or belong. The same is true when it comes to God and our relationship and standing with him. Can we measure our spirituality or where we stand with God?

The Law of Moses gave clear standards by which individuals and the nation could judge. It the people kept God’s laws, they were blessed. If they disobeyed them, they came under judgment. How unnerving it must have been when Moses told the nation that they would utterly abandon God in the days ahead. (Deuteronomy 31:29)

From the beginning, God made it clear that it is not in us to be able to keep his righteous requirements. We will never be able to measure up! That is why the old covenant, the Law of Moses, had to be replaced by a new one, which is not based on our performance at all.

Yet we know that a person is made right with God by faith in Jesus Christ, not by obeying the law. And we have believed in Christ Jesus, so that we might be made right with God because of our faith in Christ, not because we have obeyed the law. For no one will ever be made right with God by obeying the law.” Galatians 2:16 (NLT)

Nevertheless, there is something in all of us that desperately wants to be good enough on our own, even after being justified in God’s sight by faith in Christ’s completed work. We fight against any notion that this is an impossible dream.

As long as we hold on to the illusion of being able to be good enough to please God, we will never discover the really good news that we don’t have to be.

Because Jesus was good enough, we do not have to measure up in any way except to believe in and be loyal to him.

Because Jesus met every measurable standard of righteousness, we are not subject to being measured.

When we put our faith in Christ, we were given Christ’s perfect right standing with God, which is called justification. We don’t always appear outwardly righteous or act as we should, but who is measuring? Not God. Nor should we.

Who will bring a charge against God’s elect? God is the one who justifies; 34 who is the one who condemns? Christ Jesus is He who died, yes, rather who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who also intercedes for us. Romans 8:33–34 (NASB95)

Once we stop worrying about measuring up in God’s and other people’s eyes, we are able to live as a joyful servant of the Lord and others.

What a relief when we fully accept what Christ has done for us!

Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” Matthew 11:28–30 (NLT)
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How to Escape from the Prison of Bitterness

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Bitterness imprisons its victims and subjects them to demonic harassment, a kind of self-inflicted torture.

Jesus was very clear on this matter.

Then the king called in the man he had forgiven and said, ‘You evil servant! I forgave you that tremendous debt because you pleaded with me. 33 Shouldn’t you have mercy on your fellow servant, just as I had mercy on you?’ 34 Then the angry king sent the man to prison to be tortured until he had paid his entire debt. 35 “That’s what my heavenly Father will do to you if you refuse to forgive your brothers and sisters from your heart.” Matthew 18:32–35 (NLT)

Entertaining bitterness is one of the worst sins that a believer in Christ can commit.

It undercuts the mercy shown to us when we were forgiven by God. Forgiveness is the act of releasing an offender from a debt. In the parable quoted above, Jesus used a financial debt to illustrate the principle. Most of us however, do not owe God a debt of money. Ours is much more serious. The sin debt can never be paid by us. The parable of the unrighteous servant made this clear. The servant owed his master a vast sum. He asked for more time to pay it off, but the master knew that it was a hopeless endeavor and forgave him the entire amount.

In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace Ephesians 1:7 (NASB)

The servant remained deceived and did not appreciate the mercy extended to him. He thought he only needed more time. As a result, he imagined that he could eventually pay what he thought he still owed. He did not accept or appreciate his being released from debt by his master or he would have acted differently. Instead he roughly treated someone who owed him a minor debt and threw him in prison when he could not pay. When the master heard, his anger flared, and you know the rest of the story.

To forgive is to completely release someone from the debt they owe us.

It does not require us to trust an offender or be reconciled. Forgiveness can be unilateral, but reconciliation requires both parties to participate.

Forgiveness is not the equivalent of saying that what was done to us was no big deal.

It is quite the opposite. We cannot adequately forgive someone until we squarely face the evil he or she perpetrated against us. We should never minimize the offense when offering forgiveness. Instead, we should acknowledge what was done and release the perpetrator from any hatred or resentment we may have harbored against them. In addition, we let go of any demands we have made on them as “pay back”.

When we forgive a person, they are released from owing us anything, but that does not release them from their sin debt against God.

There is only one way to be released from God’s justice – by trusting in Jesus’ shed blood. Jesus offered himself as the Lamb of God to pay the penalty for our sins. We find our personal forgiveness that way, and anyone who sins against God can find the same release from divine justice.

We can release guilty people from the debt they may owe us, but only God can remove guilt and condemnation. 

Whoever does not take advantage of God’s magnanimous offer through he gospel will face the awful wrath of God at the last judgment. Vengeance belongs to God, not us. When we release people from our own demand for justice, it puts them in God’s hands, the one to whom vengeance belongs.

Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the LORD. 20 Instead, “If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads.” 21 Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good. Romans 12:19–21 (NLT)

When we refuse to forgive others, it is tantamount to saying we do not need forgiveness.

People who would perish in hell except for God’s undeserved mercy should not self-righteously refuse to extend mercy to others. In effect, that would be saying that we have a higher standard of justice than God!

Some say that when we forgive it is not as much for the other person as it is for ourselves. In fact, both are true. We release others from our judgment which frees them up to face God directly instead of being distracted by our offense against them. Additionally, we release ourselves from the prison of bitterness, a very painful and lonely place.

It is a scriptural principle that whatever we focus upon tends to control and mold us. The more we focus on what we should not be doing, the greater it dominates our thoughts. Contrariwise, when we focus on the Lord, we are changed into his image.

Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. 18 But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord. 2 Corinthians 3:17–18 (NKJV)

When we focus on sin, it molds us into its image, according to Paul.

The sting of death is sin, and the strength of sin is the law. 1 Corinthians 15:56 (NKJV)

What shall we say then? Is the law sin? Certainly not! On the contrary, I would not have known sin except through the law. For I would not have known covetousness unless the law had said, “You shall not covet.” 8 But sin, taking opportunity by the commandment, produced in me all manner of evil desire. For apart from the law sin was dead. 9 I was alive once without the law, but when the commandment came, sin revived and I died. 10 And the commandment, which was to bring life, I found to bring death. 11 For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it killed me. Romans 7:7–11 (NKJV)

Instead, when we focus on the Lord and worship him, we are transformed into his image by the Holy Spirit.

When we hold bitterness against someone, it causes us to dwell on the offense. As we meditate upon our resentment and the evil done to us, we are changed into its image. Ironically, bitterness transforms us the one whom we hate.

When God sees that we have not yet learned the meaning and value of mercy, he may lock us up in our self-made prison and assign demonic torturers to oppress us until we come to our senses. God does this because he loves us.

The Lord knows that we can never adequately experience the joys of forgiveness until we learn to forgive.

If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. 15 But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. Matthew 6:14–15 (NLT)

If we imprison ourselves in bitterness, we may not experience the felt presence of God. Joy tends to dry up. It becomes difficult to hear the Spirit speak to us. Little spiritual progress can be made until we let go of bitterness.

Repentance and forgiveness are keys to open the prison door.

If we change our mind (repent) about holding on to offenses and choose to release anyone who has offended us, the prison door swings upon and we are free to go.

Bitterness can be obvious or very subtle. Sometimes we can be bitter without realizing it. We can be offended with God, ourselves, and others. Those who are offended with God are in deep peril. Jesus warned against this great danger.

Once when Jesus shared a teaching that was hard to understand, many of his followers turned back and ceased to follow him. Observing this, Jesus asked his disciples:

Does this offend you? 62 What then if you should see the Son of Man ascend where He was before? John 6:61b–62 (NKJV)

Sometimes God offends our intellects to test our hearts. He does not explain everything he does. Instead, he asks us to trust him, even during difficult times.

Holding an offense against God is the height of arrogance.

To do so it is to say we are more righteous than he! I have known some people who turned their backs on God because he allowed something to happen that they thought was unloving or unrighteous. God is indeed sovereign, but we must not forget that sin is responsible for the great evils in our world, not God.

People ruin their lives by their own foolishness and then are angry at the LORD. Proverbs 19:3 (NLT)

If we are holding an offense against God, it is best to repent at once.

We have no right to accuse God of anything ever. Humbling ourselves before God opens the door to many blessings.

And blessed is he who is not offended because of Me.” Matthew 11:6 (NKJV)

Sometimes we might take offense with ourselves, which may make it difficult for us to receive God’s mercy and forgiveness. If we are tempted to do this, it means we have never truly understood the depths of our personal depravity. We still imagine that we are not so bad after all. But the Bible teaches us that no one is righteous before God. No one deserves mercy, not even I.

When we understand our spiritually bankrupt state, it frees us to receive mercy from God.

Those of us who still live in the deception of feeling self-righteous have a more difficult time receiving from God. We need to get over it. We are not good people. We need far more mercy than we realize!

Bitterness against other people is usually what we must overcome, however. It is usually pretty easy to spot a bitter person because they continually bring up the offense that is always fresh in their minds.

If we keep bringing up what someone did to us, we can conclude that we have not yet forgiven that person as yet.

Jesus said that we must forgive from the heart, which is impossible without help from the Holy Spirit. Sometimes we simply need to admit to God that we need his help to forgive. I remember counseling a person who could not bring herself to forgive someone. I asked her if she were willing for God to make her willing. She was; so, I led her in a prayer to that effect. Afterward she was able to forgive.

Forgiveness is an act of the will. We choose to forgive and trust the Holy Spirit to make it heartfelt… eventually.

When we pray to forgive, it is not enough to ask the Lord to help us to do so. We must declare it aloud and be specific. Lord, I forgive (fill in the blank) for (fill in the blank).

Sometimes we know immediately whom we need to forgive. Sometimes we need to ask the Holy Spirit to show us. We should not become introspective about it. Rather, we should trust the Spirit to show us anyone we need to forgive. He will do it because God takes a vital interest in delivering us from this terrible sin.

We should love to show mercy because the merciful will receive mercy.

God blesses those who are merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Matthew 5:7 (NLT)

For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment. James 2:13 (NKJV)

Only those who humbly acknowledge their own great need for mercy will experience the fullness of God’s love and forgiveness.

The more we understand our need for mercy, the more we will love God and be able to forgive others.

“I tell you, her sins—and they are many—have been forgiven, so she has shown me much love. But a person who is forgiven little shows only little love.” Luke 7:47 (NLT)
Prayer

Lord, forgive me for arrogantly imagining that I am not in desperate need of your mercy. I humbly receive your mercy and choose to forgive. (Be as specific as necessary.) Now, Holy Spirit, I ask you to release me from all bitterness. I walk out of my self-imposed prison into the glorious freedom of forgiveness. Amen.

You must make allowance for each other's faults and forgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Colossians 3:13 (NLT)
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How Strong Is My Anchor?

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When a ship is being pounded in a storm, sometimes the best step is to anchor it until the fury subsides. This can also be our best action when life besets us with storms.

When we are in school, we look forward to the day when we will no longer be subject to pop quizzes, tests, and final exams. Even after graduation, we remain in what might be thought of as the school of life, which is full of challenges and tests. Tests and difficulties are woven into the fabric of life. If we are children of God, he uses them to reveal what is in our hearts and to help us grow in our faith and devotion to him. We can learn and mature as a product of testing, or we can flounder, profiting little. 

Jesus gave us some comforting words to help us.

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 (ESV)

No matter what happens to us, we have a promise from Jesus that we can always experience his peace. Some of us have already experienced the fulfillment of this promise first hand. Others of us will eventually, if we keep our faith and focus on the Lord. But what about those times when the storm that comes at us is so severe that we feel as if we are barely able to hang on to God and his promises? What can we do if we feel as if things are hopeless, confusing, and spinning out of control?

When life seems like a violent storm pushing us against deadly reefs, we need an anchor to help us ride out the storm. Consider these words.

So God has given both his promise and his oath. These two things are unchangeable because it is impossible for God to lie. Therefore, we who have fled to him for refuge can have great confidence as we hold to the hope that lies before us. 19  This hope is a strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls. It leads us through the curtain into God’s inner sanctuary. Hebrews 6:18-19 (NLT)

Jesus already successfully navigated the worst storm imaginable at Calvary. He endured the confusion of contradiction, the abandonment and betrayal of friends, false accusations by enemies, injustice, horrible suffering, and a humiliating death. Through the apparent hopelessness of it all, he did not waver in his faith in his loving Father and the promises in the Word of God. He made the decision to enter that vortex of suffering, knowing full well what was ahead, because he fully trusted his Abba Father to be his Keeper.

When Jesus rose from the dead, his’ victory over fear and hopelessness was complete. All who trust in him share in that victory.

When it is our time to enter into testing and trial, it is important for us to make some conscious choices. It is important for us to make a stand against any emotions of fear, doubt, and confusion that may arise in our minds and hearts. The devil, who is the father of lies, attempts to get us to believe his lies instead of God’s truth in order to gain an advantage over us. Satan tells us that God is not there, that he does not even care, or perhaps that he is unable to help us. He tells us that God and his promises cannot be fully trusted. He reminds us of our faults and failings, instilling in our minds the idea that we don’t deserve God’s help anyway. Others may be blessed, but not us. Therefore, faith is useless. We must either give up altogether or take matters into our own hands.

When Satan’s lies line up with our own false interpretation of reality, it creates a powerful pull to abandon our trust in God.

The Bible calls these lies “strongholds,” which are logical arguments we make that nullify the truth and impact of God’s Word. These devilish speculations must be destroyed using spiritual weapons. (2 Corinthians 10:3-5)

Four of the weapons God has given us are:

  1. The truth of God’s Word,
  2. Our faith in God and his promises,
  3. The presence and power of the Holy Spirit, and
  4. Praise.

Unfortunately many of us have at one time or another succumbed to this temptation and have lost hope, surrendered to fear, and perhaps became quite angry at God and life. Perhaps you are in that place right now. There is hope in the Lord.

We dare not fail this test because it will engender negative consequences for us and those we love. Those we love are watching how we navigate life in relationship to our faith in the Lord. Our obedience will positively impact our friends and families, not to mention our own lives. 

The Bible encourages us by telling us what will be the outcome for those who refuse to abandon their hope in God and his promises.

Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. 36  For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised. Hebrews 10:35-36 (ESV)

Our ability to survive and thrive in the midst of the strains and confusion of life depends on our holding to the following three convictions or anchors.

  1. God is loving and good. Satan seeks to cut the line to this anchor of faith, and, if he does, we have little to hold us. However, if we maintain our confidence that God is loving and good, despite our circumstances or past experiences, we will be able to overcome adversity. God is glorified when we make this choice.
  2. God is powerful. This anchor of conviction upholds that God is sovereign over all things. He is not in a struggle against evil in which the outcome is in doubt. He is not evenly matched against some evil foe. He is the Supreme Being in whom we can fully trust him at all times. Jesus’ resurrection sealed the doom of Satan and the certainty of our eternal inheritance once and for all.
  3. God is working all things for my good and his glory. This anchor is the logical outcome of believing the first two points above and is where the victory in our minds and hearts is won. Romans 8:28 states that everything is being worked out for our good by a loving and powerful God. He will be glorified in and through us if we maintain our confidence through the test.

These three anchors of faith give us a reason to make the choice to praise God for his goodness, his power, and for working all things out for his glory and our best interests. We can choose to praise God despite our natural inclination to wallow in fear, doubt, and self-pity. We are able to choose to praise him even when our emotions are flat or even depressed. We can praise him for who he is, what he has promised, and what we believe he will do on our behalf!

When we offer to God the sacrifice of praise in the midst of confusing and difficult situations, it is a God-glorifying act of faith and  a powerful spiritual weapon.

Let the praises of God be in their mouths, and a sharp sword in their hands— 7  to execute vengeance on the nations and punishment on the peoples, 8  to bind their kings with shackles and their leaders with iron chains, 9  to execute the judgment written against them. This is the glorious privilege of his faithful ones. Praise the LORD! Psalm 149:6-9 (NLT)

Through holding on to the anchor of faith and choosing to offer God praise we can transition from hopelessness and fear to a place of peace and victorious faith.

We can experience what it means to be an overcomer, all because we make the choice to trust God and his promises in spite of all that is opposed to us. We will have an anchor for the soul that cannot be moved!

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Freedom from Shame

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The fear of being put to shame can enslave and prevent us from courageously facing the challenges of life. God understands this and has provided a way for us to walk free of this insidious tyranny.

Those who look to him for help will be radiant with joy; no shadow of shame will darken their faces. Psalms 34:5 (NLT)

Shame can be either a painful negative emotion resulting from having done something specific that was wrong of foolish, or it can be a general pervasive negative emotional state resulting from a chronic sense of self-reproach or failure. The latter may originate in childhood and is more difficult to alleviate. Some of our shame is well-deserved. If we sin against God and others, shame can be the just consequence. It certainly was for Adam and Eve.

The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it, too. 7  At that moment their eyes were opened, and they suddenly felt shame at their nakedness. So they sewed fig leaves together to cover themselves. Genesis 3:6-7 (NLT)

Sin reveals the unseemly side of us that most of us wish to conceal.

When the shame of our sin is exposed, we usually try to hide.

This can make relating to others a big challenge, since we may go to great lengths to hide anything in us is connected to shame.  We may anticipate that, if we are truly known, we will be rejected, which is sometimes the case, as it turns out. As a result, sometimes we grow to like or love someone based on the façade presented to us, rather than the real person. This is unnerving to the person who is hiding because of the fear of one day being exposed. This kind of hiding can involve big issues or small. Eventually whatever is connected to our shame will surface, however, and that is when relationships are tested. This process can lead to a necessary disillusionment that forces us to face the truth, which is often a necessary step in building a strong relationship or marriage.

Deep friendships and great marriages can happen when people take down the façade and continue to love one another despite knowing about the other person’s weaknesses and sin.

Conversely, friendships and marriages can rip apart if the deception and resulting disillusionment are too great. This can also happen to relationships in a church.

Most of the time we do not truly know a person until after we have a disagreement with them or go through a crisis together.

How we weather those storms can more perfectly reveal the nature and depth of our relationship. One of my mentors once told me that he never trusted a person until after he had a fight with him. Whenever a new person or family joins a church, it takes a while to get to know them. At first, we do not know if they will prove to be good friends and valuable assets to us or not. Time will tell. 

Disappointment and disillusionment are risks we take when we dare to love people.

There are countless numbers of believers who are drifting with no church home because at some point they were hurt and disillusioned by members of some local church.

Part of the problem is that they were not prepared to encounter disillusionment. If we are going to survive and thrive in a very sinful world, we must come to terms with the fact that people are not always who we pretend to be.

One person who is incapable of being disillusioned is God.

God knows us completely and anticipates every thought, world, and action we will ever take. Nothing we ever do surprises him.

O LORD, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. 2  You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I’m far away. 3  You see me when I travel and when I rest at home. You know everything I do. 4  You know what I am going to say even before I say it, LORD. 5  You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head. 6  Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand! Psalm 139:1-6 (NLT)

God’s omniscience makes it even more remarkable and encouraging that he chooses people to belong to him even before they are born.

All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ. 4  Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. 5  God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. Ephesians 1:3-5 (NLT)

Adoption is never by accident. It is an intentional act of love. Every child, whether biological or adopted, is a treasure. Parents may have some idea of who their biological children are, but the full revelation comes over time. Adoptive parents have less of an idea of who their children may be, since they usually have no clue what family traits may have been passed down. But God knows everything about all of us up front. He will never step back in disgust or disappointment after we make a huge misstep or sin, thinking that he made a mistake in choosing you or me.

God knew ahead of time all we would ever think, say, or do, and still chose to love us. This is a big antidote to shame.

Abandonment and rejection are roots of shame. These two things signify that we are of little value, at least that is what the devil wants us to think. If we experience abandonment or rejection, we may know the reason or may be left to imagine it. Little children and some adults are quick to assume blame, even when it is not our fault, thinking that there must be something wrong with us that is responsible for others rejecting us. Left unchecked, this can lead to the development of a pervasive since of shame mentioned earlier in this article..

Sometimes shame can be associated with sinful things we have done or were done to us. People who sexually abuse others, for example, should feel shame for their actions; that is, until and if they experience the forgiveness and cleansing provided by our Lord Jesus. Children who are preyed upon by these abusers also may experience a sense of shame, even what happened was not their fault. In fact, many predators lay the blame on their young victims, establishing a “lie-based stronghold” of guilt and shame in that young one’s mind. This sort of lie must be replaced with the truth in order for shame to be eradicated.

Whether our shame was earned through our own sinfulness or improperly thrust upon us, Jesus has done everything necessary to set us free.

When Jesus hung naked upon the cross, enduring scorn, rejection, abandonment, injustice, and disgrace, he took that shame on our behalf, along with the shame attached to our sin. Just as He carried our sin and guilt to the cross, He also bore our shame there.

...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2 (NASB)

Because He carried our shame, we do not have to bear it.

Here are some promises.

"Fear not; you will no longer live in shame. The shame of your youth and the sorrows of widowhood will be remembered no more, 5 for your Creator will be your husband. The LORD Almighty is his name! He is your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel, the God of all the earth. 6 For the LORD has called you back from your grief—as though you were a young wife abandoned by her husband," says your God. 7 "For a brief moment I abandoned you, but with great compassion I will take you back. 8 In a moment of anger I turned my face away for a little while. But with everlasting love I will have compassion on you," says the LORD, your Redeemer. Isaiah 54:4-8 (NLT)

But the LORD will save the people of Israel with eternal salvation. They will never again be humiliated and disgraced throughout everlasting ages. Isaiah 45:17 (NLT) 

Therefore it is also contained in the Scripture, "Behold, I lay in Zion A chief cornerstone, elect, precious, And he who believes on Him will by no means be put to shame." 1 Peter 2:6 (NKJV)

Did Jesus liberate anyone from shame during his three-year itinerant ministry? The answer is “Yes!” He set free the demoniac, who endured the shame and disgrace attached to his condition. He was forced to live alone in the tombs away from society. Jesus healed lepers who had to isolate themselves and cry out “unclean” whenever they moved about. Jesus allowed the adulteress in John Chapter 8 to walk away forgiven and with dignity after rescuing her from those who would have stoned her to death for her publicly exposed sin. He forgave and restored Peter, who shamed himself and his Lord by denying him publicly three times. Jesus was big on delivering people from shame then and continues to be to this day.

Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Hebrews 13:8 (NLT)

Therefore, we who follow Christ are able to know that our shame has been carried away by Our Lord Jesus Christ and we no longer must bear it.

We can throw off any oppressive weight of shame by faith in Christ’s finished work on the cross and can so honor the One who was shamed for our sake. We can make it our aim to honor and glorify God by putting our full trust in him and his promises and by boldly declaring the Gospel and name of Christ without fear of any shame the world may attempt to thrust upon us for doing that. If we are proud of our Lord, he will return the favor at the Last Judgment.

Everyone who acknowledges me publicly here on earth, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. 33  But everyone who denies me here on earth, I will also deny before my Father in heaven. Matthew 10:32-33 (NLT)

Let’s trust the Lord to help us to be bold witnesses for Christ. Whenever we may fall short, let’s quickly repent and receive forgiveness and cleansing from our sin and shame and have another go at it.

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Being Habitually Thankful – A Big Key to a Happier Life

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The Bible reveals that one of the most important keys to experiencing a joyful life is the practice of being habitually thankful. We can develop a thankful heart when we are grateful for the many blessings God has given to us. We can begin by making it a practice to contemplate the goodness and generosity of God. If this sort of thankfulness does not come naturally, we can learn to remind ourselves each day to be grateful for known blessings. One easy way to do this is by using the Bible as a starting point. For example, Psalm 103 was written by King David, who was a man of praise. In it he reminds himself of God’s goodness to him, which elicits praise from his lips.

Bless the LORD, O my soul, And all that is within me, bless His holy name. 2 Bless the LORD, O my soul, And forget none of His benefits; Psalm 103:1–2 (NASB95)

If we read the entire psalm, we will see all things for which he thanked God. His list is a good one for us, too. If we prefer the New Testament, Paul gives us several passages that we can use as starters for being grateful, such as Ephesians Chapter One. I suggest that we read these verses slowly, giving thanks for each blessing listed. You will be amazed who this leads to genuine worship from the heart.

Sadly, many of us take God and blessings for granted, complaining about everything that doesn’t seem to go our way. Complaining is a sin that God punished severely during Israel’s wilderness journey. Those chapters were written to teach us a valuable lesson. If you want to check it out, read through Numbers and see how many times God came down hard on complainers.

When we gripe about our circumstances, we accuse God of failing to deal equitably and lovingly with us. It is an overt act of rebellion.

The Bible clearly teaches that our Lord is working everything out for our good and his glory.

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 (ESV)

When we complain, we call God a liar.

Thankfulness is built upon the conviction that God loves us and consistently acts on our behalf in a way that is good, powerful, and wise.

It becomes habitual when we surrender to God all our demands and desires, believing that he is generous and will give us everything we need. It is complete when we would rather glorify God than do anything else, which means we let go of our demand to understand why he allows pain and difficulties to come into our lives.

Thankful people are happy people who bring honor and glory to their Creator and encouragement to others.

The practice of being thankful is simple to grasp but costly to put into practice. Our “flesh,” the residual part of us connected to Adam’s sin and not yet under Christ’s rule, is never grateful because it has no faith. We must resist this inner pull to complain and rely on our spirit within, which is connected with God’s Holy Spirit, to give thanks to God. At first, this may seem difficult, but as it becomes more of a habit, it will come more (super)naturally.

Are we willing to lay down our pride and become thankful in all things? If so, why not start now?

Rejoice always, 17  pray without ceasing, 18  give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.  1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (ESV)
Prayer

Father in heaven, thank you for creating me. Thank you for the gift of life. Thank you for all the good things you have given to me over the years and your promise to provide and care for me forever. Thank you for sending your Son, Jesus, to die on the cross and rise again, so that I could be forgiven and restored to a right relationship with you. I also give thanks for the difficult things going on in my life right now. (List them out loud.) I believe you are working all things out for my good and your glory. Glorify yourself through my life, Lord, and through the situations and circumstances surrounding me. Let me bring glory to you by modeling trust and thankfulness to others. I believe you love me and always have my best interests in mind. Amen.

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God’s Got This!”

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In the weeks and months leading up to the 2020 presidential election, when it became increasingly apparent that the “fix” was in, I received a strong impression from God one morning: “God’s got this.” It brought rest to my heart, as you might imagine. However, I immediately I layered on top of that simple statement my expectations of what that meant, which is what we usually do when God speaks to us. We all tend to hear what we want to hear and project our hopes on to his words. Notwithstanding, I continue to hang on to those words, confident that God indeed “has this,” even though a lot time has passed.

I realize that God’s version of having things in hand is quite different from mine.

Since his power and authority is absolute, he is willing to let things play out far longer than I would. But then, he is God. This is a tremendous life lesson that all of us need to learn seemingly over and over again.

Since that morning, the Lord has spoken several other things to me that add layers to his first promise. Let me share those other messages with you, in the hope that it might encourage your heart, as it did mine.

The second thing I heard him tell me was this: “Let go and watch what I do.” This reminded me of a relevant Bible verse.

"Cease striving and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth." Psalm 46:10 (NASB)

This, of course, is an extension of the first word, “I’ve got this,” with the added promise that God is going to glorify himself in the midst of what is taking place on the earth. It reminds us that he has much more at stake than the survival of our Republic. His plan for the entire world and the glorification of his Son is playing out. His glory shall indeed fill the earth. We can be sure of that.

The third thing I heard the Lord speak to my heart came one morning as I was praying for our nation with a sense of angst. “Lighten up. I have already done this.” It was a gentle reminder that not only has he indeed “got this,” but that it is a finished deal from his point of view.

One of the most powerful spiritual weapons at our disposal is praise.

Let the godly ones exult in glory; Let them sing for joy on their beds. 6  Let the high praises of God be in their mouth, And a two-edged sword in their hand, 7  To execute vengeance on the nations And punishment on the peoples, 8  To bind their kings with chains And their nobles with fetters of iron, 9  To execute on them the judgment written; This is an honor for all His godly ones. Praise the LORD! Psalm 149:5-9 (NASB)

I realize that many believers are very uncomfortable with the idea that we are to execute judgment in God’s behalf. Certainly, we must forgive our enemies, but we also have a call to stand with God in righteous judgment. That is one of the functions of the church – to execute judgment tempered with mercy. The way we do this in the here and now is by offering our praise and worship to the God of judgment. The two-edged sword is the Word of God. (Hebrews 4:12) As we worship the Sovereign Lord and declare his lordship over all things, we in essence bind evil plans and people over to the will of God. As Jesus taught us to pray: “Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven,”

We are not to pray desperate prayers. Instead of pleading with God to do something, we are to stand in faith and declare that the victory is already won.

For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith. 1 John 5:4 (ESV) 

And he said, “Listen, all Judah and inhabitants of Jerusalem and King Jehoshaphat: Thus says the LORD to you, ‘Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed at this great horde, for the battle is not yours but God’s. 2 Chronicles 20:15 (ESV)

The fourth thing I heard him speak is elementary, but it bears repeating: “You have nothing to fear.” Fear is a natural response to the unknown, but it must be resisted. We are in the midst of a worldwide psy-op fear campaign designed to push people into abandoning sound judgment and doing irrational things. rollercoasterFear impairs our decision making ability. The children of Israel made some pretty terrible choices in the desert because they were afraid of their enemies instead of trusting God. We are no different from them, except that we who believe in Jesus have the Spirit of faith (2 Corinthians 4:13) living inside us. (A huge difference!) We have no excuse for fearing, except that we still live in these fleshly bodies and are subject to temptation. (You may with to read another of my articles, entitled You Are Not Alone, to get help in this area.)

God wants us to make the choice to fear not, because He has things in hand!

The fifth thing God spoke to me was the following: “You have no idea how powerful I am.” There are three basic reasons why we should trust God. He is good. He keeps his Word, and he is powerful. In other words, he always does what he says. What he promises is always good, and nothing is able to thwart his plans. Plenty of well-meaning people make promises they cannot possibly keep, but never God. He always does what he says. Nothing is too difficult for him. Truly, we have no idea how powerful is the One who created the the heavens and earth out of nothing.

As we praise and worship the Sovereign One, who loves us beyond comprehension and always does what he says because no one and nothing can possibly stop him, let’s encourage our hearts that God’s got this!

All the people of the earth are nothing compared to him. He does as he pleases among the angels of heaven and among the people of the earth. No one can stop him or say to him, ‘What do you mean by doing these things?’ Daniel 4:35 (NLT)
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From Frustration to Fruitfulness

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Nothing good comes from frustration unless we use it the right way. Have you ever wondered why God often chose barren women to become mothers of some of the important people in Bible history? It cannot be mere coincidence. Our Lord is using these examples to teach us something very important. A recurring theme is for a man to marry a woman he dearly loves only to discover she cannot seem to conceive – Abraham & Sarah, Isaac & Rebecca, Jacob & Rachel, and Elkanah & Hannah. In those days, God allowed men to have more than one wife, which is related to my point, because it set up a situation in which frustration, jealousy, mocking, and torment could come into play. Hagar mocked Sarah, Leah mocked Rachel, and Peninnah did the same to Hannah, producing in them a significant level of frustration. Frustrated people sometimes become bitter against God, but none of these women did that.

In the days when the Old Testament accounts were being lived out, the ability to have children was supremely important and used as a measurement of God’s blessing. Conversely, childlessness was viewed with disdain or pity and regarded as a sign of God’s judgment or lack of favor. Indeed, children are a blessing from the Lord in so many ways. They bring joy and fulfillment to their parents and others. In Old Testament times, they helped out with the enormous work load around the home and farm. In addition, children were viewed as a form of security in old age in the days before there were government programs for the elderly. Childlessness could leave you insecure and alone in your old age. Being childless also opened a couple up to being looked down upon by family, friends, and neighbors.

What could make matters worse for many barren women in those days was the presence of another wife who was able to bear children for their husband. The fruitful wife proved that the problem did not reside in the husband. It was all the “fault” of the barren wife. This would be difficult enough in itself, but, if the childbearing wife used her own fruitfulness to mock and accuse the barren wife, it could become intolerable, as in the cases of Abraham & Sarah, Jacob & Rachel, and Elkanah & Hannah.

In every case previously mentioned, the barren wives were dearly loved by their husbands. This is very important, because fruitlessness is often interpreted as being a sign that we are not loved or that God has withdrawn his favor from us. Elkanah and Hannah provide the perfect example. Peninnah was the fruitful wife. Hannah was the greatly beloved barren wife. Here is what the Bible says about that triangular relationship.

Each year Elkanah would travel to Shiloh to worship and sacrifice to the LORD of Heaven’s Armies at the Tabernacle. The priests of the LORD at that time were the two sons of Eli—Hophni and Phinehas. 4  On the days Elkanah presented his sacrifice, he would give portions of the meat to Peninnah and each of her children. 5  And though he loved Hannah, he would give her only one choice portion because the LORD had given her no children. 6  So Peninnah would taunt Hannah and make fun of her because the LORD had kept her from having children. 7  Year after year it was the same—Peninnah would taunt Hannah as they went to the Tabernacle. Each time, Hannah would be reduced to tears and would not even eat. 8  “Why are you crying, Hannah?” Elkanah would ask. “Why aren’t you eating? Why be downhearted just because you have no children? You have me—isn’t that better than having ten sons?” 1 Samuel 1:3-8 (NLT)

There are many childless wives who are dearly loved by their husbands; nevertheless, their fruitlessness still gnaws at their souls.

There is something inside us that longs to be fruitful. This is true in the natural realm and the spiritual one.

In a sense, we give birth to spiritual children when we share the gospel and people are born again into God’s kingdom. When God uses us to be part of that miracle by acting as a sort of midwife in the birthing process, it brings us great joy and fulfillment. If we are not able to lead anyone into a new life in Christ, over time it wears on us, especially if we see others having great success. We begin to ask the same questions Hannah asked. What’s wrong with me? Why doesn’t God give me success? Has God turned his back on me? What am I doing wrong? Peninnah made matters infinitely worse by mocking her rival, just as Hagar mocked Sarah and Leah mocked Rachel.

When we try to measure our own success or failures against the perceived failures or successes of others, we are not wise. This is a form of legalism.

For we dare not class ourselves or compare ourselves with those who commend themselves. But they, measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise. 2 Corinthians 10:12 (NKJV)

Comparing ourselves to others often produces frustration. Hannah fell into that trap. She was already frustrated, but Peninnah’s mockery threw gas on the fire. It got so bad that Hannah was inconsolable. Fortunately, she knew what to do. If we, like Hannah, take our frustrations to God, it can produce great fruitfulness.

After they had eaten and drunk in Shiloh, Hannah rose. Now Eli the priest was sitting on the seat beside the doorpost of the temple of the LORD. 10  She was deeply distressed and prayed to the LORD and wept bitterly. 11  And she vowed a vow and said, “O LORD of hosts, if you will indeed look on the affliction of your servant and remember me and not forget your servant, but will give to your servant a son, then I will give him to the LORD all the days of his life, and no razor shall touch his head.” 1 Samuel 1:9-11 (ESV)

When things come easily to us, we may undervalue them or think we did it on our own. The more important a promise is to God’s plan, often there is a greater wait and struggle for us to receive a miracle by faith.

Abraham had to wait twenty-five years for God to fulfill his promise to give him a son. In the interim, he grew weary of waiting and attempted to “help” God by resorting to a man-made solution by producing a child with Sarah’s servant, Hagar. When we do that, we may end up with an “Ishmael,” an ongoing complication and source of sorrow. For another example, consider David, who had to wait about fifteen years after being anointed by the prophet Samuel to actually become king. He went through some very dark and lonely places along the way when he was probably tempted to “throw in the towel”.

Consider Joseph, about whom the Bible says:

The LORD'S promise tested him through fiery trials until his prediction came true. Psalm 105:19 (GW)

Those who fought in the American Revolution on the patriot side also went through some very dark and trying days. When things were extremely bleak and many were ready to give up, Thomas Paine printed a pamphlet that turned the tide, entitled The American Crisis. These memorable words are found in it.

THESE are the times that try men’s souls. The summer soldier and the sunshine patriot will, in this crisis, shrink from the service of their country; but he that stands it now, deserves the love and thanks of man and woman. Tyranny, like hell, is not easily conquered; yet we have this consolation with us, that the harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly: it is dearness only that gives every thing its value. Heaven knows how to put a proper price upon its goods; and it would be strange indeed if so celestial an article as FREEDOM should not be highly rated.

In Abraham’s case, much more was at stake than his having an heir: a nation was being birthed which would produce the Messiah and Lord.  In Joseph’s situation, his own destiny was not the only thing God had in mind. Rather, Joseph would be instrumental in the preservation of his chosen people, the line of the Messiah. And God was going to use Hannah’s frustrated desire to have a son to bring into the world one of the greatest prophets of Israel, whom God would use to install its first and second kings.

God seems to enjoy bringing his greatest blessings in miraculous ways, against all odds, using very unlikely people whom the world despises and judges to be worthless.

Remember, dear brothers and sisters, that few of you were wise in the world’s eyes or powerful or wealthy when God called you. 27  Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. 28  God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important. 29  As a result, no one can ever boast in the presence of God. 1 Corinthians 1:26-29 (NLT)

So, if we are frustrated and discouraged that promises God made to us look as if they will never come to pass, we should not listen to the mocker and the accuser. Instead, like Hannah, let us seek the Lord.

But, like Hannah, we should be prepared to hold on to the fulfillment very loosely, because God may want to use the long awaited answer for his kingdom. If we give back to God that for which we have waited for such a long time, he will make it up to us. Hannah gave her long awaited son, Samuel, to God’s service, and God gave her more children to call her own. Imagine how proud and fulfilled she was to know her son was such an important man!

We should never give on God’s promises, even if we are not allowed to experience their fulfillment in our lifetimes.

All these people died still believing what God had promised them. They did not receive what was promised, but they saw it all from a distance and welcomed it. They agreed that they were foreigners and nomads here on earth. Hebrews 11:13 (NLT)

What if God wants us to be faithful so that the next generation can experience the fulfillment?

Moses got Israel through the wilderness, but Joshua led them into the Promised Land. Abraham fathered one son of promise, but that son and grandchildren would become the fathers of a multitude culminating in the Messiah. God’s promise to Abraham was fulfilled through his descendants. We are in this for the long haul, which may include multiple generations.

We cannot properly measure the value or significance of our lives and ministries. Only God can do that. Ours is to be faithful to God over a lifetime.

Let us not cave to discouragement, frustration, or fear. As Winston Churchill so famously said, “Never, never, never give up!” We must not give up on God’s promises. He is absolutely faithful to his Word. He will never let us down. He prizes faith, especially faith that keeps going when the chips are down. In the meanwhile, we rest in knowing that we are loved.

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